The attribute of double (switch) has a bad reputation in the circle, which seems to be synonymous with slag. Mainly for some men, yesterday was s, today is m, and tomorrow is double.
Maybe it's because everyone thinks that we can match any attribute. If the partner is not double, it's likely that we need two partners with different attributes at the same time. In fact, as far as I am concerned, I can restrain another attribute when determining a relationship, or express it in other forms in my life.
Most women's Shuang Yi is not scum. Can it be royal? You can snuggle up in your arms in jk Lolita, and you can bully girls kneeling with black high heels? Oh, it's okay to say boring, but we're not scum. Very single-minded, will only give you all the good things in life!
In the final analysis, the letter Smoot circle is a main nu game, with emotion, but not love.
It can accompany you to grow up for a period of time and bear your feelings for a certain period of time, instead of all the feelings left for a lifetime. As an M, S should not only do what he says, but also have his own ability to judge what is reasonable, what is unreasonable, what can be done and what cannot be done. There is no need to play with his body without a bottom line for the relationship of three to five years. You can question and deny, but don't act without authorization.
As S, all the power is provided by M. In this game, S is the server and M is the person who is served and enjoyed.
If m doesn't feel suitable, you can't keep him at the moment when he decides to leave. S should spend more energy to understand M, be familiar with M's emotional changes, education, companionship and study together are the main things, and tj should be the icing on the cake rather than the dominant position. Any project that M agrees to carry out must abide by the SSC principle (safe, reasonable and informed consent) and must not interfere with M's normal life.
You don't have to suppress yourself, M is responsible for releasing yourself, and S is responsible for tolerance. But circles are circles, and life is life. You can think of the circle as a paradise for life, but you can't stay in it all the time. Always face the reality. Everyone has everyone's routine. S can't be with M all the time, and M won't be on call, so don't be forced. M doesn't need to blame himself, and S shouldn't be angry.
Personally, don't spray if you don't like it. I also hope those so-called fake s, so-called men's doubles beg you to be good people ~
But I am very grateful to the circle of friends in the Fourth Ring Road, the women's community and many sisters. They take care of our female compatriots and give me a place to study, communicate and speak, and the basic quality of boys is very high. The fourth ring road is great!