each of us wants to meet our intimate friends in life, but as everyone knows, true friends are more expensive than essence.

Friends who get along comfortably, have a heart-to-heart relationship and achieve each other are the most worthy friends.

Chen Jiru, a writer in the Ming Dynasty, wrote in "A Tale of Small Windows": "If you make people happy at first, you will not be bored for a long time." The pleasant mood when we first met is fascinating, but a long-term relationship that is comfortable and not boring is often more desirable.

stay with whoever you are comfortable with, and making yourself happy is more important than anything else. Lao She said this about making friends: I will always love to make old men. Poets with long hair, girls in dresses, men and women who play micro-golf, and scholars who bite words have nothing to do with me. Don't like it.

Su Qin once wrote: "Be with whoever is comfortable. Those who can enter my heart, I will stay with the king, and those who don't enter my heart will not bother to perfunctory. "

People's energy in this life is limited. Only by spending time with friends who are worthy of deep friendship, learning from each other and achieving each other can we not waste this life.