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Tips for dating and chatting with girls

Dating conversation skills

1. Tell the other person your bad things. Some people are always worried that they have nothing to say on a date. In fact, there are many topics, so just be prepared in advance. . For example, telling someone about your bad things will lead to a lot of words. These bad things can be your real experiences, or they can be fictitious bad things that are purely for entertainment. Telling about bad things can break the ice and appear close. 2. Play word games. There is a so-called Solitaire game. After one person is asked to say one idiom one by one, the latter must say another idiom according to the last word of the idiom said by the former. This kind of word game is the easiest to pass the time. , so you can say to the other person, "I can play Solitaire. Let's play together and see who is better." It doesn't matter even if you make the request abruptly, maybe the other person will be enthusiastic about it later. 3. If two people are bored together, they can also play brain teasers and twists. 4. Ask the other person what to do if they get to an uninhabited island? Suppose the other party encounters a situation where a person goes to an uninhabited island, what will the other party do, and what will you do? This is conducive to using your imagination, and you can talk about the world. As you talk, the two parties will naturally become harmonious. You can continue to say: "But if I can be with you, it will still be fun even on an uninhabited island." You can say this sentence with a little courage. 5. What topics are most interesting to talk about during a date? Memories from childhood should be the best subject matter. When talking about these topics, each other can strongly feel that they were born in the same era and had similar interests when they were young. This allows the two of them to enter an infinite fantasy world together, and then create a sense of harmony between the two of them. 5. When you have nothing to say, you might as well say: "This peaceful atmosphere is really nice." Sometimes we encounter this situation, where the topic of both parties is interrupted and suddenly becomes silent. This feeling is really uncomfortable. Just imagine, when both parties are having a happy conversation, the topic suddenly breaks off and they don’t know how to continue the conversation. The happier the previous conversation, the more severe the silence will be. In this case, both parties are depressed. Head, remain silent. When encountering this situation, you might as well just say, "Well, this peaceful atmosphere is really nice!" After saying this, no matter how long the silence is, it will turn into enjoyment, by chance. If you look at each other and send affection to each other, then the silence will not only not be uncomfortable, but on the contrary, there will be a feeling of "silence is better than sound at this time".

Flirting skills

1. Light a candle or cover the lampshade with a red gauze scarf when chatting. This trick was used in the movie "Let's Talk".

2. Make an appointment at the flower shop, and ask the flower sender to wait at the place where you are dating him or her at 7 p.m.

3. Meet at a deserted beach or sandy beach and light a bonfire to roast potatoes.

4. Walking in the light rain without an umbrella, nodding and smiling at the people taking shelter on the roadside.

5. Memorize the horoscopes, invite him/her to Jieding and point out the other person’s constellations to him/her, then look at the stars and think about them. Of course, you don’t have to memorize them by heart, just point to one. Beautiful stars, another touching story.

6. Sing old songs, the older the better.

7. If you are going to woo the other person, you can say this: "I heard that there is a way of courting that is to draw a heart in the palm of your hand, and if the other person agrees, you can also draw a heart." He said while drawing a red pen on the palm of his hand and putting the red pen aside.

8. Prepare a wide strip of cloth with words written on it. When you were happily chatting with her in the cafe, you suddenly fell silent. You took out a piece of cloth from your pocket and shook it out. On it you could write "I'm so happy to be with you!"

9. Stop your watch when you are on a date with him or her, look at it when you are leaving and say, "When I am with you, my time stops. I really wish it was still at 7 o'clock."

10. Insert long matchsticks one by one vertically on the cake to spell the other person’s name, starting from the beginning and flashing to the end.

11. Waiting for his (her) further education. If there happens to be an ant nest under your feet, you can use honey to write "I love you" on the ground. After a while, the words will appear on the ground and let him ( (her) surprise.

12. Buy a restaurant and pay the bill in advance. While chatting, the lights suddenly dimmed, and the waiter rolled out the birthday cake and sang Happy Birthday.

13. Go out into the wild and have a lover’s barbecue picnic.

14. Choose an interesting place, such as Dunmei or Changbai Mountain, look at the map, pictures and legends, and it will sound like you have been there to him or her. When the other person asks, tell him/her: "I haven't been there, but I know it well. Because I know I will go there one day in my life. Will you go with me?"

15. When ordering a set, only two people know the password. For example, "7575" means: "I also want to go to the restaurant on the corner of the building to eat hot pot." "1459" means "When I looked in the mirror in the morning, I suddenly thought of your lovely face."

16. Buy a copy of "Traditional Crosstalk Selection". When two people are lonely, they read and talk together, and they often have unexpected happiness.

17. Tell stories together. One person speaks a paragraph, and the other person continues. There is a story like this. A: "The cat fell madly in love with a light bulb." B: "They got married." A: "They gave birth to a child.", B: "They got married." A: "They gave birth to a child." B: "They got a child." : "It's a light bulb with a tail."

18. Learn from the ancients and walk in the snow to find plum blossoms