I once met campus bullying, and I was a victim.

School is our second home and a good place for students to grow up. In recent years, campus bullying has occurred frequently. The word "campus bullying" dazzled me too much. At that time, I remembered it with a psychological shadow. I thought about how worried I was, and I felt annoyed when I mentioned it. Let me talk about it below. Maybe you will be inspired after reading it.

mind map 1. share my experience of being bullied

when I first entered junior high school, the school asked girls to cut their hair short in order to study hard. My hair was cut short and I felt that I couldn't tell it was a boy. However, things have started to change at that moment. Because my appearance and personality are like boys, my hair is almost the same as boys' hair style, and my personality is not as brave as them, but as timid. Once, when I went to the toilet after class, suddenly a girl whispered to her little friend, "Hey? How did this man get into the ladies' room? It's not a pervert, is it? " How embarrassed I was when I heard that. I turned a deaf ear to what they said and hurried to the toilet.

After going to the toilet and coming out, some boys I didn't know saw me in the corridor and cast a surprised look. Somehow, they started coming up to me, saying nasty things in my ear, and even swearing, cursing me and saying I was bad. I didn't offend them. They did it because I was too timid and felt bullied. Among them, a boy was tall and said directly, "I heard a girl say that you are a boy going to the toilet. Is this the case?" I panicked at that time. When I wanted to confess, I was interrupted and said angrily, "If you are seen doing this again, I will never let you go!" I immediately ran out and wanted to cry, but there were so many people that I felt ashamed. So, I went home and cried secretly in bed, but I couldn't sleep, and I felt very uneasy.

the next day, I went to the toilet as usual after class. At this time, I saw some boys I saw yesterday. They are bullying me again. One of the boys picked up his fist and tried to hit me. Suddenly, my good friend Xiao N saw it and stopped the boys' behavior. She shouted, "Leave them alone and I'll handle it!" " She explained and reasoned with some boys and even asked for an apology. Some boys heard this, worried about being scolded by the teacher, and ran away in fear. I thanked Xiao N, and Xiao N said seriously: "When you encounter bullying on campus in the future, you must stand up and don't swallow it, or you will be victimized again for your future life."

I nodded, and when I encounter bullying on campus in the future, I will come forward to stop bad behavior and not add bad atmosphere to the campus. Second, the influence of campus bullying

victim

Campus bullying not only hurts the victim physically, but also psychologically. Even if the body recovers, the mind will not forget for a long time. When encountering campus bullying, it is easy to form anxiety and have traumatic sequelae. Anxiety can make life abnormal, make it easy to sleep at night, and live without spirit the next day. If you don't control it, your academic performance will decline, which will have a great impact on your future studies.

The abuser

thinks he is very funny and exciting, and he doesn't realize the seriousness of bullying on campus. Perpetrators are habitual, and long-term violence will have a serious impact on the victims for life, thinking that bullying on campus is not illegal? In fact, it is illegal, and it is easy to get into the quagmire of crime, which has painted a stain on life.

Onlookers

Onlookers can also be regarded as abusers. When they clearly see someone being bullied on campus, they feel that they are doing well, even playing well. Because of their cowardice, they have no ability to stop them or ask for help from adults, but it is easy to encourage bullying on campus. There are even mobile phones taking pictures to show off, just rubbing the heat. Third, what to do in the face of campus bullying?

Stand up bravely and say "No"

Never choose not to make a sound when bullying on campus happens. Campus bullying will be bullied the first time, and it will be bullied the second time. Be sure to stand up bravely and shout to them: "No!" Use the reason that parents are coming to distract them, and quickly turn around and run away from them. If you really can't, you can use gestures to attract the attention of passers-by. Otherwise, they will indulge their behavior.

Tell parents

It is useless to tell teachers generally, but it is easy to be retaliated by the perpetrators. When you encounter campus bullying, you must tell your parents in time, and your parents will appease your emotions. Will reflect to the teacher, * * * to solve the problem.

protect yourself

when the abuser wants to hit someone, he can block himself with his bag, desk, chair and hands. If you are injured, you should go to treatment in time. Go inside and close the door behind you to prevent the perpetrators from entering and invading.

Make more good friends

Abusers like to bully isolated and taciturn people. I suggest you open your heart and make good friends. Don't be afraid, make them bravely, express your sincerity and make more good friends. Good friends will naturally help you when you are infringed. Fourth, the conclusion

Campus bullying is resolutely zero tolerance! Don't let campus bullying become a scar on the face of youth! Resolutely oppose the occurrence of campus bullying and let the campus get a safe and comfortable environment.