There is almost an iron law in feelings, and the one who loves the deepest is always the worst one.

when you love, because you love deeply, you pay a lot, even if you love painfully, you are willing. It doesn't matter yet. What really makes people sad is that they can't let go when they are clearly separated, so that they can only live in their own painful little world and wait for liberation alone and helpless.

how can I completely let go of a relationship? Some people say that the limit that a person can bear pain is five days, so when you get through that painful five days, you will naturally let go! Some people say that they can't let go because they still love. Since they still love, there is no need to let go, because those who still love can't control themselves.

It took me a long time to understand that falling in love with someone was so simple, maybe it was just a look, but the real difficulty was not getting along, but forgetting, because it took a lifetime.

Zhang Xiaoxian said that there is always only one way to forget a relationship: time and new love. If time and new love can't make you forget a relationship, there is only one reason: time is not long enough and new love is not good enough.

it takes no effort to really forget. One day, you came out of the bathroom and turned on the record player to listen to your favorite music. You suddenly remembered that you once loved someone. Ah, so you loved this person. It seems like a long time ago, and you have no feeling at all.

so how can we completely let go of a relationship?

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Mi Li said, it's not that you can't let go of a relationship, but that you haven't been hurt deeply enough and hurt enough, because when you are too painful and bitter, you naturally let go. I have seen such an experiment before. One person holds a glass cup in his hand, and then another person injects hot water into the cup. At first, there was only a little hot water, but it was hot, and he could still hold on. Later, when the cup was full of hot water, that person could no longer hold it.

The final experimental result is that when the pain is beyond your capacity, you don't need to deliberately let go!

Mi Li once loved such a man so much that he had no dignity and no ego. He knew that his boyfriend was moving on, but he still couldn't let go, dreaming and waiting alone. Finally, my boyfriend turned around and said that he knew he was wrong and finally knew the goodness of rice.

Rice was filled with joy, and felt that God finally had a conscience. However, less than three months after the reconciliation, the boyfriend that Mi Li loved was cheating again. He thought that Mi Li, who had never been able to let go in his life, suddenly let go at that moment. Even though he saw it with his own eyes, there was no wave in his heart.

This is a complete manifestation of a person's death. In the face of pain, there is no wave, not enough pain, but despair after numbness!

After breaking up, Akai thought that he would never love again. Even in the face of a beautiful woman, there was no fluctuation in his heart. To this end, his parents also specially found a psychologist for him, fearing that he would not get out of this hurdle and that he would be hard for a while, but in the end it had little effect.

It wasn't until a year later that Akai met a new girlfriend that her parents' worries were completely put down.

Ah Kai said, sometimes it's not that you can't let go, but that you should give time. People are emotional animals. When you are separated suddenly, you will inevitably miss them suddenly. When you get used to a person's life, you won't have so much obsession, and you will remember them, but there will be no more waves.

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I didn't realize until many years later that it takes courage to fall in love with someone, and it takes more courage to let go of someone. First of all, you need to fight against your own heart. You have to win your own unwillingness and your own disappointment. When you break all your retreat, surprises will appear in front of you.

Ask Chenchen: "Did you really put it down?" She replied without hesitation: "No, although she didn't put it down, she didn't take it to heart."

When you are on the verge of life and death, you will really understand a lot of things that you didn't understand before.

When I divorced, I locked myself in my room in the morning when I was desperate. In the end, the people I tortured were not ghosts or ghosts, and I thought about suicide countless times. But in the end, I found that all the big things became small things before life and death. Only living is hope. Life is not perfect, which means that there are no people in this world who are not hurt, but so what? Who doesn't bite his teeth while holding on!

when you get through the most painful years, you will surely find that all the surrounding scenery will be completely new! That's a different view, one you've never seen before.

In fact, many times we ask ourselves: "Have we really let go? Is it completely put down? " When we answer ourselves affirmatively, I'm afraid it's not necessarily! You know, to really let go is not to forget. Unless you lose your memory, you will never forget those unforgettable memories.

to really let go is to let go, not to forget, but even if I remember, my heart is calm, even if I say goodbye.

to really let go is to hide a person in the deepest part of your heart, so that your life will not be affected by that person, and you will miss it, but you will not be impulsive.

No one can control his feelings, even if that person is ruthless and heartless. But sometimes we have to admit that time will really take away many precious memories quietly. Later, in our minds, there is a person whose appearance is more and more blurred, and he will forget his voice and his name, but he still remembers this person.