1. Friends of Eight Worshipers used to call brothers and sisters with different surnames "Friends of Eight Worshipers". Eight Worship, the etiquette of ancient family friends' children to see their elders. Ten stories about Ji Li's visit to Wen Yanbo in Shao Bowen's "Before Seeing" in Song Dynasty are listed.
2. The friendship between cloth and clothes refers to the communication between ordinary people. Cloth, the clothes of ordinary people in the old days. There is a saying that "Wei Jun made friends with Wen (Meng Changjun's group essay) in Qi Ce III of the Warring States Policy", and there is a saying in Biography of Historical Records of Lian Po and Lin Xiangru that "I think that the friendship between cloth and clothes is not yet deceitful, and the situation is great". 3, the turn of the car refers to friends who are not expensive. In the Jin Dynasty, "The more vulgar and simple, the first time to make friends with people, polite, seal the earthen altar, and offer sacrifices to dogs and chickens. I wish you a good day:' Although Qing will take a bus to Dai Li, we will meet and get off the bus the next day'; I'll walk, you ride, and we'll meet you tomorrow. " Make a promise not to be expensive or cheap, but also to Chongqing. "
4. A friendship between men and women means a friend who makes friends regardless of rank. Chu Jiu: The wooden stick and stone mortar of Chunmi. "The Biography of Wu Hu in the Later Han Dynasty" states: "At that time, Shamu, a public official, traveled to the Imperial College and had no money. Instead, he became a guest-servant, earning a living. I was so frightened that I settled with * * * between the poles and mortars. " Later generations referred to "the turn of the pole and mortar" as making friends regardless of rank.
5. A bosom friend refers to a friend who has no words to talk about and confides in. In the Tang Dynasty, Bai Juyi's "A Hundred Rhymes of Poems on behalf of the Book" contains a sentence that "there is no separation between the heart and the body, and there are two unruly figures". 6. A friend in need refers to a friend who has been through hardships together. A friendship between orchids refers to a friend whose friendship fits like a brother. The classic "Shi Shuo Xin Yu Xian Yuan": "The mountain public and Ji, Ruan side, the deed is like Jin Lan." 7. The turn of a stone refers to a friend whose friendship is as deep as a stone. The book "The Biography of Han Han Xin" was published: "Although I thought I had made friends with Jinshi, I was finally captured by Hanwang."
8. A gentleman's friendship refers to a friend who looks plain but focuses on morality. The classic "Zhuangzi Samwood": "The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship between villains is as sweet as ever." 9. A best friend who never turns his back refers to a very good friend with the same interests. On the contrary. Be consistent. There is a saying in "Master Zhuangzi" that "four people smile at each other, but they are not rebellious in their hearts, so they are friends", and there is a saying in "Biography of Northern History Sima Ying" that "they are famous for a while. With Xing Zicai Wang Jing and others, he is a best friend who never turns his back on me.
1. A poor friend refers to a friend you make when you are poor and humble. The book "The History of the Later Han Dynasty Song Hongchuan" was published: "Hong said:' I can't forget the friendship between the poor and the humble, and the wife of the dross can't leave the court.
11. Making friends with the past refers to friends made in the past. The title of Du Xunhe's "Interview with Cai Rong" in the Tang Dynasty is listed: "Every time I see something painstakingly repaired, I never open my mouth to complain about it." 12. Forgetting the turn of the year refers to friends who pay attention to virtue and ability regardless of age and age. He Xun Biography of Southern History was published: "Fan Yun of Nanxiang saw the countermeasures of Xun Xun, and he was greatly rewarded, because he forgot to make friends in the new year." 13. Forgotten friendship refers to friends who promise each other with their hearts and are informal. The book "The Biography of Meng Jiao in the New Tang Dynasty" was published: "Less seclusion in Songshan, less sexual introduction, less harmony, and when Han Yu saw it, he was forgetful."
14. A friend who loses his head is a friend who won't change his mind. The book "Historical Records, Lian Po's Yin Xiang Ru Biography": "Car and joy are awkward." 15. The turn of the century refers to making friends with both father and son. The biography of Shao Bowen, the history of the Song Dynasty, was published: "Bo Wen learned about his father's teachings, but when he came out, it was Sima Guang and others, and Guang and others also resigned their positions and made friends with Bo Wen again." 16. The friendship between bamboo and horses is also called "the friendship between bamboo and horses", which refers to the friends made when I was young. Bamboo horse refers to a child riding a bamboo pole under his crotch as a horse, which is used to refer to childhood. The classic "Shi Shuo Xin Yu Founder": "The emperor said:' Is it good to talk about the past and recover hundreds of millions of bamboo and horses?
17, the turn of the total angle is also called the "good total angle", which refers to the friends made in childhood. In ancient times, children combed their hair into a bun to represent their childhood. The biography of the Three Kingdoms, Wu Zhi and Zhou Yu quoted the biography of Jiang Biao as "Zhou Gongli is handsome and talented, and he has a good overall angle with loneliness and is divided into flesh and blood".