I am a senior student, and I just found a job soon. I am a student in our school. I want to say that you should seize the opportunity of the student union and strongly despise those who say it is useless to join the student union! When I was looking for a job, I mentioned my work experience in the student union. The company checked the letter of appointment for my student union and soon decided to sign a contract with me. Is this useless?
I was an introvert when I was a freshman, but now I am more extroverted with more people. Those methods on the internet may be very useful, but I haven't tried them. One should have self. Without it, it is useless to learn from others every day. Working in the student union, you should remember three points: diligence, dedication and enthusiasm. This is also a magic weapon to accumulate contacts.
To correct you, college is a place where you can definitely make true friends. I contacted a lot of people. For example, when school started at the beginning of this year, I caught a bad viral cold and hung up on water for two weeks. In two weeks, I didn't go to the restaurant to eat, but my friends brought it back to me. And I didn't give them any money, so the fruit on my desk has never gone bad. Later, I stopped hanging water to take medicine. They all bought it for me. Don't worry about me. You don't need to attend classes for a long time, which will affect your usual exam results. They will definitely ask someone to help me when the teacher calls the roll. At the end of the semester, my grandfather was seriously ill and died soon. I didn't ask for leave to go home to see him honestly. There happened to be an exam. My friend who was caught cheating in the exam and wanted to make a big mistake or get fired risked his life to help me with the exam. Do you think this is a true friend?
I feel that there are many people around me, but there are also many sincere friends worthy of your association. It's up to you to decide who is worth dating. How to identify? Pay!
As a girl, most of them are stingy. This has become an obstacle for girls to communicate. Seeing that you say you are indifferent to others shows that you are still better. How can others not care? I don't know. You need to open your eyes again. Maybe you haven't paid enough, or maybe this kind of person is selfish. If that's the case, just don't keep a dull relationship. There is no need to be close to everyone. The baiwenhang has always existed in society. The usefulness of the student union is also reflected in another aspect. The students in the student union come from all departments of the school, and the people inside are also very complicated. If you want to accumulate contacts, you must first do the first thing, be diligent, and go after work. You can always do something to help others. For example, if someone wants to sweep the floor, you can help. Directors of other departments accept outreach tasks. You chat with him and say that everyone learns from you together, and so on. These are all exercises, and at the same time accumulate contacts. At the same time, when you help others, you can also see whether this person is worth socializing with. If it's worth socializing, spend a little money to find an opportunity to send something or invite you to eat and discuss it. Anyway, if it is really worth dating, he will find a chance to give it back to you. If it is not worth socializing, you should learn from experience. See more to learn more. Don't talk about others in your own small circle. Just be clear-minded, and talk more about others. Men have more contacts with girls, so they should pay attention to the scale when they communicate. Those who don't want to develop love relationships should not be too ambiguous, which is not good for anyone.
In short, seize the opportunities around you, be diligent, know how to pay, have enthusiasm, plus your own discernment and generosity. True friends are bound to meet.
In addition, with more friends and more exchanges, there will naturally be a way to start a business.
Good luck. If you have any questions, continue to add them. I will answer them.
Supplementary answer to the question:
I am also a student in two universities. Is the second one poor? If you pay attention, can you see how many bosses of famous companies graduated from famous universities? The gap in learning IQ is definitely not the gap in personal career!
What is an unpopular major, afraid of not finding a job? You're just not strong enough. Many awesome people I have met are from unpopular backgrounds. They want to crack down on those who are popular, but after seeing their work, they have made no progress. Many jobs are professional, but many jobs have no professional restrictions. Many companies are eager for talents, but the key is that you are not "talented"! Strengthening yourself is the most important thing!
As for how to be a man, I have actually given it to you. The way to make friends is the way to be a man. Others value your talent and make friends with you. Don't be a hypocrite. Steady, generous and principled are what you need.
Network? You look in a hurry. You may not like to hear it when you are eager to expand your contacts. Your eagerness to expand your contacts may make it difficult for you to make intimate friends. Networking is a step-by-step process. I won't tell the truth yet. Let me give you an example: a very good friend of mine started his own business and was a little short of money a few months ago. He asked me to help him raise 1 ten thousand yuan. How can a college student get so much money? He can't ask for it from home, but borrow it. Not much to say, I still know thousands of people in college, but how many people can I lend you? Besides, if I don't know him well and have a close relationship with him, will I lend him money? Don't say "10,000" or "1000", so expanding your contacts should start with making close friends around you. A close friend is your friend, and you have a wide network of contacts. That's not networking, it's communication skills!
That's all. I was just being reasonable. I don't think you like listening to theories. After all, I have read so many books and watched so much TV. I hope it will be helpful to combine theory with practice!