Once you encounter the problem of blind date, you must be careful. The other person's character comes first. If you are confused, you might as well pay attention to yourself. From the following aspects, all well-educated people do well in these areas. We must learn to face up to the problem of blind date. It is better to observe each other calmly than to marry a stranger in a daze. Maybe you can find a suitable person. And a senior matchmaker reminds us: If you want to know the character of the blind date, just look at these four points.
1. See if you are punctual, polite and orderly when eating. Blind date must have a blind date banquet, sit together and communicate with each other, not only to see the outside of this person, but also to consider what kind of person this is through the words and deeds of the other party. For a man, he must learn to respect women, so he must be punctual. Men who don't arrive on time will definitely be deducted. In the process of eating, they speak politely and act reasonably. Pay attention to everyone present when ordering. You should also be polite to your elders.
Pay attention to many questions after a meal, and smart people can also see your accomplishment and temperament from a meal. Many people can only continue to develop if they have a good impression on each other when they meet for the first time. I have to say that those who are very self-disciplined are very popular with their elders in the process of blind date. After all, getting along with each other is pleasing to the eye first. Just make a good impression when you meet for the first time. If you want to continue this fate, you should pay attention to your behavior and don't do things you haven't considered.
2. See what kind of people his friends are. Knowing the friends around you, it is easy to know what kind of person a person is. Men and women must have a common topic together, so we should understand each other's communication. Men and women with stable temperament often come into contact with some people with stable temperament, while those with lively temperament are more inclined to make friends with open-minded people.
A friend of mine agrees with this truth. As a single older woman, my friend can be said to have experienced many blind dates. She said that sometimes we can't just look at the surface, but she was cheated. Look at each other's circle of friends. Those who mix too much and socialize too much will naturally know what kind of person this is. We can't just listen to others, it's watered down.
3. See if his attitude towards life and work is full of hope and love. Some people need someone who understands and cares about themselves in marriage, and the other half needs to achieve spiritual harmony. Therefore, if you are a positive person who pursues life, you naturally hope that your other half will be the same. The same hobbies and interests can make your life more interesting. So when talking about work and life, these are inevitable. It is also a good choice to talk about your ideals and ambitions and enhance mutual understanding. We want to be experienced people, and the matchmaker told us that when watching blind dates, we must look at each other's hearts and see if they are suitable. Most of them are in these places mentioned above. We should not only learn to understand these aspects, but also find a blind date with excellent quality. Maybe they are our type. For blind date, we should hold the attitude of "making friends", and believe that you can find your own happiness.