Hello, everyone. I'm glad to answer this question for you. I am the mother of two children born after 90. I asked the right person about having no friends in my life. Usually the children at home have no friends. Because I am a treasure mother who married from Jiangxi to Hunan, naturally I have no relatives or friends here. After giving birth to 2 treasures, I thought of many ways to make friends. I am a baby, and I have been taking it for three months since I was more than three months old, so that the baby can go swimming. In order to make friends with the same treasure mother, my baby also got exercise. Or go to the community to play, generally the community is a treasure mother. So we can play together, so we won't be bored. Otherwise, if you don't have friends for a long time, you will not be able to keep up with the rhythm outside. This is my personal experience! I hope everyone is happy every day!
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It is a great pity that you have no friends in your life. It is an indisputable fact that you don't look lonely and helpless. As the old saying goes. You depend on your parents at home and your friends when you go out. Friends are easy to walk, but friends are not afraid. A friend is a happy song. Therefore, for people who don't have any friends, how to live without friends in life is really a question worth thinking about. How can you feel at ease? In this regard, I don't think the reason why friends live less is that they are introverted, pessimistic and disappointed, taciturn, insecure, have little contact with people, rarely communicate with people, have no confidence, are stingy, don't give generously, and even are stingy. Barley must have needles. So such a person has few friends, and such a sharp person probably has no friends, so if he wants to live. Maintain an optimistic attitude, outgoing and cheerful, contact and communicate with people more, be willing to spend money, be less stingy, and be honest and trustworthy. Such a person should have more friends, and it is estimated that he can live his own life. But it is worth noting that friends are all over the world, and bosom friends are hard to meet. You are not afraid of many friends, but you are afraid of one enemy. So there is no need to make friends with anyone, money is a friend.
It is impossible to live without friends. If you really don't even have a friend, that's a problem.
First, personality, personality problem.
Is the main problem, but also the decisive problem. Your character is aloof, indifferent and indifferent. If you don't contact, talk, communicate and learn from each other at ordinary times, others won't know you and have no in-depth understanding of you, so they feel uneasy and alert. If you don't care about, support or help other people's things, and others have no feelings for you, how can you be friends?
Second, because of the job transfer, the environment has changed, the people you meet are unfamiliar, and others don't know the situation for a while, so it is normal for others not to associate with you for a while. At this time, you feel that you have no friends, but this is only temporary, not long-term.
So, how can we solve these problems?
To solve this problem:
1, strengthen communication, enhance mutual understanding and gain a sense of mutual trust.
2. Care and help others and enhance emotional communication.
3. Learn from each other and enhance unity and friendship.
4, strengthen moral cultivation, improve their own quality, enhance taste.
5. Strengthen self-study, improve working ability and enhance admiration.
6. Actively participate in activities, compete with each other, and enhance interest.
7. Observe other people's hobbies, explore other people's personalities and find the same feelings.
Because of the complexity and variety of life, some things are unpredictable and not man-made, but this is only a special phenomenon, not a universal phenomenon. Therefore, we have many aspects to learn, but mainly these seven aspects. If these seven aspects are done well, friends will be all over the world.
It is a great pity to have no friends in life. First, I have to wake myself up. Why don't I have any friends? What should we do next? If you want to live a meaningful life, friends are indispensable. No matter what you do, no matter how many assets you have, you must have at least three friends, otherwise you will have to entertain yourself when you are happy.