Looking at each other’s mobile phones# In fact, the relationship between husband and wife is very close. Logically speaking, there is nothing normal or abnormal about looking at each other’s mobile phones. However, in reality, there are many reasons for looking at each other’s mobile phones. Or not looking at each other's phones resulted in many conflicts or misunderstandings. Today we are going to talk about whether looking at each other’s mobile phones will affect each other’s relationship?

In fact, according to the cases of most people in our reality, it is not common for couples to openly show each other their mobile phones. More often, the other party secretly looks at the other party's mobile phone and then discovers There are things and things that you don’t want to see, and eventually some misunderstandings or emotional wars or marital crises break out.

Why do many couples in today’s world get so angry when their partners look at or check their mobile phones? Because my phone was being looked at, I feel like my self-esteem has been hurt and I feel like you don’t respect your personal space.

Although sometimes the other party agrees to show it to you, he actually feels very uncomfortable inside, feeling that you have trampled on his dignity. He temporarily restrains his anger, but it is like a powder keg. Explosion, I may have a dispute with you at any time.

Most couples who check each other’s cell phones will quarrel for no reason. In fact, they suppress the anger, but the other party is waiting for your problems to arise. Once you fail to do something well, he will They will seize the opportunity to quarrel with you, want to regain their self-esteem elsewhere, and want to win a war without smoke.

Actually, this is about personal privacy, but whether couples should have personal privacy or not, I think this is a debatable issue. Some people check their partner’s mobile phone openly. That's okay, but there are still a minority of upright couples. Those who don't show it to you have some problems, while those who show it to you at least appear to have no problems.

Using personal privacy as a shield is the excuse of most people with problems. In fact, how much personal privacy do you really have? Only you know this in your heart, business secrets and company secrets are rarely stored in mobile phones, so if a mobile phone WeChat and other communication and dating software are not allowed to see, isn't it obvious that there is something wrong?

There may not be any problems with letting you check your phone. The scariest thing is to delete everything that needs to be deleted. Sometimes checking your phone is just a formality, and it can easily damage the harmony between husband and wife. If you want to check, it is safest to check secretly without letting the other party find out.

In fact, if you find out whether the other person is cheating or something else, you can find out some problems without checking your mobile phone. You don’t like being at home anymore, you always like to go aside when answering the phone, and your mobile phone is secretive to you. After waiting for a series of details, you can find out whether the other party has done anything to betray you.

The reason why some couples are willing to show each other their mobile phones is because they have done nothing wrong and are not afraid of the other party checking. There are no business secrets or company secrets in my mobile phone, so they can let the other party do whatever they want. examine.

The most important thing between husband and wife is mutual trust. In order to maintain a superficial relationship, many couples refrain from checking each other’s mobile phones, but in fact they still have certain desires in their hearts. To have an unobstructed view. Because they do not get a corresponding sense of security and trust in their actual relationships, they want to verify the other person's true feelings for them from other places.

Then the question is, when checking the other party’s mobile phone, do you want to see it, or do you not want to see it?

Maybe you haven’t figured it out yet, what do you want to see when you look at the other person’s phone? Want to see evidence of the other person’s infidelity? Or do you want to see that the other person is not cheating? Is seeing the other person cheating on you something you don’t want to see? It’s a bit hard to pronounce, hehe.

So do you want to see it, or do you want to see content you don’t want to see? Since it's something you don't want to see, then why bother watching it? If you want to see it, you can't go on, and there's no need to watch it. Watching it will only add to the congestion, so it's better not to watch it.

Whether it is normal or not for husband and wife to look at each other’s cell phones depends on the harmonious discussion between you and your husband. If you agree that you can look at each other’s cell phones or not look at each other’s cell phones, and you think this will help promote your relationship, then It's just normal. On the other hand, if you have made a rule not to look at the other person's phone, but you secretly break the rules and check the other person's phone, then it will definitely affect and destroy the relationship and trust!