Many people say that it takes a lot of energy to build a relationship, and you are as tired as a dog when you go to work every day. How can I have the energy to make friends and go to parties? I'm not a rich second generation, so I'd better move bricks if I have the energy.
It is difficult for adults to make friends, and it is difficult for children to be small and gentle. The child just went to kindergarten this year and has been in school for more than two months. At first, they worried that their children would cry when they went to kindergarten. But this didn't happen. The children went to kindergarten happily every day.
However, these days, children began to become unhappy when they went to kindergarten. Friends thought that the novelty of children had passed, and there was no expectation in their hearts.
As a result, when I went to school to pick up my child that afternoon, the child ran into Xiaowan's arms and began to cry. Ask carefully before you know. It turns out that the teacher recently grouped the children together to finish some homework or play with toys.
The children of Xiaowan's daughter group have bad personalities. They do everything with their daughters and don't share toys. As a result, my daughter is very sad every time she meets her group, because being with her means not playing with toys.
Xiaowan appeased the child and found a kindergarten teacher. At this time, the child's parents happened to be there. Daren quickly apologized and promised to bring fun toys to the children tomorrow to compensate them.
Xiaowan didn't say anything when everyone said so. Ask the children again in a few days and find that the children in the same group are much better and more cheerful than before, and they also take the initiative to bring their own toys to play with.
Children can't share, and it's hard to integrate into the group and say they won't share. Many children have had this situation. No matter at home or in kindergarten, toys will be regarded as their personal belongings, and other children are not allowed to touch them.
Just like one of my cousin's children, whoever touches his toy will cry for a long time. Slowly, no relatives around dare to take their children to her house, and no one wants their children to play with such children.
Children love to share, what if they can't make friends? 1. Do a good job in family atmosphere and set an example.
Parents need to pave the way for their children in their daily lives. For example, if the whole family eats watermelon together, let the baby share it and tell the baby that sharing can make the whole family happy. In this happy atmosphere, children will be more and more willing to share.
Consciously share what you see with your child, so that the child can feel that you are sharing emotions with him, whether happy or sad, and let the child realize the influence of sharing.
2. Teach children to put themselves in other's shoes.
Some children don't want to share or touch other people's things. Some children force others to share things with themselves instead of sharing them.
When this happens, we need to train our children to know that you are not the only one who can feel happy or sad, and so are others.
3. Don't share it by force
Many parents will force and severely educate their children when they encounter children grabbing things or not sharing things, and it is difficult to achieve good results.
Even if the child listens to you this time, it is not willing. You can't see the child in the end, and then he will still act according to his own ideas.
4. Encourage children to take the initiative
Many children really want to share, but they will be shy and afraid to speak. At this time, parents need to encourage their children to invite them to play together or to be guests at home.
This is all a kind of sharing. When a child establishes a good relationship with a child, his friends will gradually increase.
Today's adults are afraid of society because of the great social pressure. But who doesn't have several good friends? Most people's good friends are born when they are young or at school.
So parents should also pay attention to making friends with their children. Without friends, children will lose a lot of fun and experience.