All cultures in the world want boys to take the initiative. Influenced by the growing environment, boys in China have been taught "Don't talk to strangers", "Be careful in making friends" and "No puppy love" since childhood. A leopard cannot change his spots, and even if he goes abroad, most of them can't change his introverted and shy personality and won't take the initiative to chat up girls. In western culture, this is a kind of "lack of self-confidence". In front of confident and unrestrained western boys, of course, they will be marginalized and naturally cannot attract the attention of girls.

contrary to our country, in western countries, love for the purpose of marriage is hooliganism! More than three foreign girls in China have complained to me that their boyfriend in China either talked for less than a week and directly offered to take him home to meet his parents, and then talked about their married life. Either boys have the attitude that "you are a foreigner, so we can't get married, so I won't talk to you seriously, we are just having fun", which makes girls very puzzled. In western countries, dating and getting married are almost completely irrelevant in most cases. Marriage usually takes a long time to get together and live together before it can happen.

language problems. Boys should take the initiative. But? If the language is not good, you can't communicate, even if you have all the skills, you will naturally have eggs. No matter how elegant you think, you can't understand the jokes of the local people and you can't tell stories smoothly, but it's still natural. Having cleared the language barrier, we will start to build ourselves. Girls all over the world like interesting people. It's just that this "fun" will have different understandings in different cultures.

In developed countries, "money" is no longer the primary criterion for choosing a spouse. A fitness instructor with a story is much more competitive than an entrepreneur with a rich belly and a boring life. Go to work, go to fitness, go to sports, travel, go bungee jumping, try all kinds of things that have never been tried, and don't just eat and sing all day. The richness of life experience is very beneficial to the whole life.