But nothing is absolute. I have met a couple who started a business together and have always maintained a good relationship.
Similarly, my driver and I have a beautiful short. The process of raising cats together has brought us a lot of joy, and our love for each other has only increased.
The hours of raising cats together were as warm as spring.
Be patient if you like ~
Some people say that keeping pets can cultivate each other's patience, and rounding is equal to * * * parenting.
Although this sentence is somewhat exaggerated, it still has some truth. Because keeping a pet is really a trivial matter.
I have a cat, which is much easier than keeping a dog, but I also do trivial things every day: changing water, changing cat food, shoveling excrement and grooming. ...
Then regularly cut the cat's nails, wash its ears and feed insect repellent; Then clean the cat toilet regularly and choose cat food, cat litter and cat snacks. ...
These things seem simple, but doing them repeatedly for a long time is really a test of patience.
Generally speaking, women are more patient than men. My driver and I are no exception.
Most of the time, I am responsible for such trivial things as "keeping a cat". Only when you think about it occasionally will you ask the driver to do it.
Originally, I wanted to hone the driver's patience, but I didn't expect to get an unexpected result, that is, I saw his childish side.
Precious childlike innocence when you grow up ~
Once, the driver opened a new bag of cat food for the cat, smelled delicious and couldn't help but taste it. Then he said to me in surprise, "It tastes good, such good cat food!" " "
Then, he ran to taste the canned cat. This time, he frowned, bitter face, for a long time, spit out a sentence: "So fishy ..." I have already smiled on the sofa.
When pouring cat food, drivers often grab a handful of cat food in their hands to lure cats to eat. When it was about to eat, it deliberately raised its hand. Then I looked at the silly cat and smiled very successfully. ...
This kind of trick, the driver always tried and tested, and once he was fed, he played it once. In other words, my cat has a good temper. If it was a fierce cat, it would have been stripped by this joke.
It's the feeling of home ~
Every time the driver plays with the cat, the simple and ordinary picture will touch my heart: isn't this a little blessing in life?
Moreover, when the driver teased the cat like this for the first time, an idea popped up in his mind: Will he definitely tease children like this in the future?
Others say that keeping a pet is equal to raising children, which is probably what this means.
Keeping a pet with your partner is like having a home.
The existence of cats brings us too much fun. So if you ask me, is it okay to keep a pet with your partner? My answer is yes.
Of course, that's because I have the conditions to keep a pet with the driver.
We all like pets very much.
Pets are alive, so keeping pets is responsible.
In my opinion, only if you really like it, you will pay with your heart and really take responsibility.
The driver and I like this furry little guy very much, and our love for him is real. Therefore, we have never had any conflicts in raising cats.
If the object doesn't like pets, just to accommodate you and reluctantly live with pets, then over time, conflicts will inevitably arise.
In this case, it is not recommended that two people keep pets together.
2. We entered a period of emotional stability.
I have been in love with the driver for many years, and now I have basically entered a period of emotional stability, so there is no question of "who will return the cat after breaking up".
However, if your relationship with your partner is not stable enough, you need to think carefully.
Although it hurts to say it, if we break up, whether both sides want it or both sides don't want it, it will cause disputes.
More importantly, pets have no complete home in an instant. This is not friendly to pets.
And if you and your partner have the above two conditions, it is highly recommended to have a pet together.
Tell you from personal experience that this is a very healing thing and can contribute to your happy house.
At the same time, the family status of male basin friends will also become lower, haha ~