LZ, there are many people with hidden marriages nowadays. People with hidden marriages do not deliberately hide their identities or avoid marital responsibilities in order to live happily outside as imagined. On the contrary, most people with hidden marriages avoid the topic of marriage because of pressure from society and the workplace. Nowadays, many young people think that holding a wedding is a lot of trouble, wastes time and money, so they only get a marriage certificate instead of holding a wedding, and their colleagues often don't know.
Based on your description, I think he might be this kind of person. He likes to chat with you, and maybe he really has a crush on you. But when you ask him if he has a girlfriend, he never answers directly or avoids it. This can indicate a certain problem. Moreover, you also said that colleagues in the company don't know, which makes it even more suspicious. This is Isn't it a sign of his guilty conscience? I don’t think he is a bad person, maybe he just has a cheerful and lively personality and likes to chat with you, but you really need to observe it carefully, and I hope you don’t fall into it too early. 25 is not the age to be impulsive. You have only known each other for a short time. Sometimes you can't recognize a single person for a whole year. Nowadays, people in the city are relatively deep.
Now, I will tell you some ways to misidentify people with hidden marriages. I hope it will be helpful to you:
1. The catchphrase is "I am alone..." Although my age is already Mature men and women who are close to or over 30 years old, although they often make friends of the opposite sex, they still end up being "loners".
2. When you are having a good conversation, if you forget his (her) self-introduction and you suddenly ask the question "I heard that your lover (husband) is very beautiful (handsome)?", he or she will (She) will immediately ask unhappily: "Who did you listen to?"
3. Rarely make sexy phone calls in the office. When everyone is chatting about marriage issues and emotional belonging, she will immediately Remain silent as if nothing happened.
4. Occasionally, you will find a white mark on his or her ring finger. If you ask the reason, you will probably smile and not answer.
5. After get off work, when a group of single men and women are having fun outside, his or her phone will definitely ring after eight or nine o'clock in the evening.
6. When answering the phone, you will find that he or she may look nervous and hesitate: "Okay, I got it", "Uh-huh, bye", "Come on, let's talk later" ", obviously wanting to get rid of the other party as soon as possible; or at least once, he ran outside to answer the phone; or the text messages on the phone kept ringing, and the phone rang wildly, but he (she) pretended not to hear it. You reminded him. (She) said: "It's a typo, don't worry about it."
7. He has always claimed to be a happy single aristocrat who loves to be crazy, playful and laughs, but every holiday, his (her) The whereabouts become mysterious and difficult to contact.
8. He (she) is keen to attend social gatherings alone and actively meet the opposite sex. However, if the invitation requires a female companion (male companion) to attend, he (she) will often not show up.
9. Playing a palmistry game among friends, if you joke and say: "Your palmistry shows that you will get married before the age of 30, or you can talk about marriage, how come you are still alone now?" He said. (She) looked a little embarrassed, then withdrew her hand and couldn't wait to change the subject.
10. A person of the opposite sex who seems to be an uninvited guest suddenly appears next to him (her) who has always maintained a single image. If you don't recognize him (her) and ask him (her) to introduce him, the atmosphere will become very awkward.
Wish you good luck~