Popular people are generally lively, cheerful, versatile and bright in the crowd. You don't have to please everyone to be popular.

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Eighty percent of interpersonal communication belongs to interest exchange. When it's time to talk about interests, don't talk about feelings. See this clearly, don't let others treat you as an ATM, you treat them as confidants.

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People will make all kinds of friends because they are lonely and do not adapt to the new environment. But as long as you are different in nature, the final result must be drifting away.

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No one likes to be educated. Don't make suggestions and criticisms easily unless you are a true friend. The result is usually that the two sides have not gained any benefits, but turned against each other.

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Being good at listening is the secret of maintaining friendship.

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Everyone's growing environment and values are different, and their requirements for big and small things in life will be different. So don't judge others by themselves, you may touch each other's bottom line-even if that bottom line is not very important to you.

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Politeness is a trick of not asking for money, and only fools are stingy.

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You don't have to be popular, especially when you are an introvert. It is better to find your own circle of friends and rhythm than to blindly imitate those successful books.

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The ultimate goal of making friends is to improve the spiritual realm of both parties and beautify their lives. If your friendship makes you miserable instead, please give up. A person can also be very happy.

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Don't trust each other's company and commitment. You can keep it in mind, but don't rely on it completely. When in trouble, you still have to go by yourself.

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As the old saying goes, "icing on the cake is easy, but giving charcoal in the snow is difficult." When you get along well, so-called friends come one after another, all like your close relatives; You lose the light, and they leave. Remember this, don't be fascinated by the so-called popularity. Most people will not be your real friends-they are close to you not because they like you, but because they like themselves and want to promote themselves.

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Don't just associate with friends who are full of sweet words and praise, but don't talk to you from the heart. Be able to accommodate the existence of friends.

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childhood friendship is pure, and social friendship is sometimes full of use and deception. You don't know whether the other person likes you or is jealous of you. Be careful.

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Ugly girls are not without benefits: when making friends, everyone tends to choose people who can foil themselves.

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Making friends with people who are contrary to your personality and have certain similarities can supplement your natural lack of temperament and energy.

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People will change. It's normal for friends you haven't seen for years to have nothing to say. As long as you grow up, you can't help but face this.

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When making friends, you should not only have the same interests, but also gradually examine each other's values. Something deep in his heart may be quite different from yours.

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Friendship should be equal in an ideal state. But if your friends don't respect you very much (not kidding), tell you what to do, or don't care about your feelings, ta may put himself above you. In this case, the best way is to disconnect.

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A friend who goes through adversity together is a permanent friend. Therefore, don't leave your friend when he is in trouble, but be more attentive to him.

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What kind of friends you make, you are generally what kind of person. The shortcomings of those friends you hate may be yours. More introspection is conducive to interpersonal harmony.

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Once you have identified a friend, you should remind yourself to learn to be tolerant.

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The older you get, the more lonely you will be. Because at this time people no longer have the same goal, and the competition is more intense. Don't care too much. Learn to be alone.

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Having a bad temper or speaking badly is very bad in the dating market. Although it is often natural, it is difficult to maintain intimate relationships without restraint. Because it is usually close people who do the most harm.

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It is difficult for people who don't know or like reciprocity to have many friends.

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Making friends also depends on fate, just like love, which cannot be forced.

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Time will tell you who your true friends are.

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The ancients said that a bosom friend is enough in life. In other words, you may never have a soul friend.

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No matter how lively, intelligent, interesting and attractive a person is at first sight, if ta does not have a kind and kind heart, ta is not the best candidate for a good friend.

you may gradually find that ta doesn't care about your friend at all. Ta is not sorry for you, but you are wrong about ta.

in short, on the one hand, excellent friends are not necessarily good.

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No matter how good a friend you are, you may hate ta for a while, just like a mother sometimes tries to strangle her child. Be patient for a while and don't express yourself too bluntly. In the end, you may find that it is actually your period, or your hormones are not adjusted.

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The more intimate people are, the more likely they are to hate each other. Reference between parents. We should consciously avoid this deviation.

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If you don't understand each other, you'd better not judge rashly, which will expose your ignorance and self-righteousness. If no one asks your opinion, you'd better observe silently first.

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When someone is in a bad mood, don't ask too many questions, pat him, and then leave to give him personal space.

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Most people in modern society don't like to be told their privacy, so it's safer not to take the initiative to ask.

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You don't need to change your position for friends, just say what you think. You may have drifted away from each other, or you may have gained an understanding, and nothing happened in the end. In short, let it be.

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Some sincere little gifts can make your friends happy all day. Don't be stingy with praise, especially when your friend hesitates.

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Just be polite to strangers. Of course, if you are willing to be warm and helpful, so much the better. Sometimes life will add unexpected happiness.

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You'd better be careful not to expose yourself too much to those who are above you. Remember to be neither humble nor supercilious.

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It's better to be kind to people who are lower than you, because it's not easy for everyone, and giving someone a rose has a lingering fragrance.

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People who bring sunshine, hope and spiritual strength to others will unconsciously surround a large group of people. So, you can try to be such a person.

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If you can, it won't cost you too much. You must try your best to help. This is very important.

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When getting along with a large group of people, don't leave your mobile phone outside.

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Don't impose what you think is right on others. People's minds will not change easily, which will only have the opposite effect. If you meet such a person, ignore it.

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Don't control the words and deeds of others, because everyone needs autonomy, and the most unbearable thing is to lose the right to autonomy. If you find that your friend is trying to control your attitude by praising, threatening, judging, being at arm's length, etc., you should bring it up, or leave, so that ta can understand that this is the wrong behavior.

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Just listen to half of what others say. There is always a lot of exaggeration and subjective will, which is not necessarily accurate.

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Don't rely on others to build up your sense of self. Don't lose yourself in any communication.

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No matter how good the relationship is, generally don't touch other people's things without authorization. Maybe in ta's mind, your relationship is not as good as you think, and your behavior undoubtedly closes the door to the other side.

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When someone confides in you, you should know that ta doesn't know how to solve this problem, but just wants some comfort and attention. Mistakes are common among straight men.

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The intimate relationship between men and women usually follows the principle that if they get together quickly, they will break up quickly. The real long-lasting relationship is usually the mutual attraction of souls and patient maintenance.

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No matter how good the relationship is, it needs regular maintenance and deepening, otherwise it will change.

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Put the most energy into enhancing your value: whether it's physical appearance, talent learning or personality charm. This is the root of interpersonal attraction.

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Don't promise others anything easily. Once you promise, you must do it to maintain your credibility.

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There are all kinds of small circles in life. Don't be sad if you don't fit in. For you, all these things are fleeting and only seem very important at a certain time. The reason may be your vanity or loneliness. So do many people. For you, it's just a nodding acquaintance for a while. Don't take it too seriously, and don't be afraid of offending people.

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In the workplace, reliability is a gold medal of interpersonal relationship more than anything else.