First of all, you should attend more parties, because many people around you like to organize parties. If we attend more parties, we can meet more people, such as parties organized by our colleagues. Because there are not only our colleagues, but also friends of the organizers in that party, we should have more contact in this occasion, and we can also learn some social etiquette and expand our circle of friends, so as to realize the one we like.
Don't break contact with former classmates and friends, keep in touch with them frequently, but actively participate in the past when there are classmates' parties. Even if you can't get what you want there, many contacts are still good, because in the classmate circle, if we have a very good classmate, he can take us to other parties, and our circle of friends will grow up in an instant. In the normal communication process, even if you are unfamiliar with others, you should have the habit of leaving others' contact information.
In fact, many young people have certain social phobia. For some crowded occasions, they are unwilling to express themselves and put themselves down, so the circle of friends is getting narrower and smaller. You must try to reach out to others and society, because only in this way can you expand your social circle, even if you can't find the object in your mind in this circle. But when we are in trouble, we can also find people to help us in these circles. Nowadays, society is developing rapidly. If we always live at two o'clock and one line, it is difficult for us to meet other people, so we should often attend some parties, because that is the best and fastest way for us to meet people.