1. First, we should improve our psychological quality. Some students may lack obstacles in emotional communication, and they are timid, shy or even inferior in communicating with their classmates. At this time, they need to improve their psychological quality, open themselves more, learn to deal with people, and joke, fight and study with their classmates with a positive attitude, so as to help them establish a good relationship with their classmates. 2. Secondly, we should know how to use some practical communication skills. For example, learn to empathize between classmates. If we are faced with some problems, we can put ourselves in the classmates' shoes and see how we will deal with these problems when we stand in each other's position. At this point, we can understand what others do when facing and solving problems. In this way, we get along with our classmates, even if our temperaments are different, and the ways to solve problems are different, but we can try our best to simplify the handling of problems, which is more conducive to our development of interpersonal relationships. 3. For example, always praise your classmates sincerely. Praise your classmates moderately, show your appreciation and kindness, and enhance their attraction. Especially some students who are shy on weekdays, if you take the initiative to associate with them and seriously praise their talents, abilities and personality characteristics in a certain aspect, it will make them agree with you as soon as possible and be willing to associate with you. 4. For example, always smile and thank your classmates. Smile is the best weapon, and it is the best bridge to build the relationship between people. In addition, heartfelt thanks can make people feel that you are educated and willing to spend more time with you. Therefore, no matter how big or small, as long as your classmates lend you a helping hand, you should not be stingy with your sincere and friendly thanks, so that you can feel the shining brilliance of human nature between each other, which is conducive to the further development of your classmate relationship. 5. For example, take the initiative to associate with classmates. College students don't want make a fool of oneself, they should actively enrich their interpersonal world. When you actively associate with your classmates, you will find that other students may be less confident to associate with others, so you are not inferior to anyone. You should do better than other students and take the initiative to draw closer to each other. In this way, once there are misunderstandings and contradictions between classmates, you can also take the initiative to explain them clearly, eliminate the misunderstandings between them and re-establish a friendly classmate relationship between you. How to carry out interpersonal communication correctly 2 In interpersonal communication, there are four taboos for employees in enterprises: First, avoid being rude. Some people think that "thick needles and big lines" and simplicity and rudeness are the true colors of working people, while elegant speech and graceful manners are all bourgeois "goods". This small-scale peasant consciousness that despises modern civilization is very harmful. Second, avoid losing your temper. Emotions, joys and sorrows are human nature. But if you are in a bad mood, you should "digest" yourself, but you must never "attack" others, otherwise it will be very uncivilized. No matter how bad your mood is, don't lose your mind. Instead, you should restrain your bad mood and control your anger ideologically. A quick temper and a casual temper will not only hurt the harmony, but also make people "stay at a respectful distance from themselves". Third, avoid flying short and long. It is not an exaggeration for colleagues and friends to say a few words from the heart, but it is never allowed to spread rumors and gossip irresponsibly everywhere. In particular, we should pay attention not to gloat over the misfortunes of others, or even to look at the shadows and embellish them, taking others' privacy and suffering as our own talk. Fourth, avoid talking too much. When you get along with others, don't overdo it, especially don't make fun of others casually on public occasions and during office hours, and make jokes about "degrees". In short, in order to be popular in interpersonal communication, please be sure to abide by the "three A principles". The meaning of this principle is to ask people to accept, agree with and value others as much as possible in interpersonal communication. It is called "triple A principle" because in English, the first letters of these three words are all A. Bujilin, an American scholar, believes that "three A" is like a basic food to satisfy people's self-esteem, and it cannot be replaced by other things in interpersonal communication. His words are worth remembering by every enterprise employee, if you don't want to be hated. How to carry out interpersonal communication correctly 3 How to deal with interpersonal communication obstacles The importance of interpersonal communication Dealing with interpersonal relationships in life and improving our interpersonal relationships are all things we should learn and experience. Xiaobian sorts out some ways to improve interpersonal skills, psychological categories of interpersonal communication obstacles and the importance of coordinating interpersonal relationships. First, the importance of coordinating interpersonal communication In eastern philosophy, relationship is productivity. In the west, relationships are the scarcest commercial resources. Relationship is a complicated concept and a complicated social phenomenon. I think that interpersonal relationship determines a good relationship in life and can add wings to our success, so it is particularly important to exercise interpersonal skills. No matter where we go, the unspoken rule of "being familiar with others makes things easy" is applicable. If you want to succeed in your career, you must build your own network. If you have dignitaries in your relationship and ordinary people in the world, and someone applauds you when you are in the spring breeze, they will do anything for you when you need help. At this time, you will deeply appreciate the power of relationship! 1. Interpersonal relationships are closely related to our work and life. The development of relationships in life will inevitably involve some spare time, such as regular activities with friends and relatives. There should be a difference between work and life, and the establishment of working relationship should use rest or sporadic time to communicate. In modern busy work, the establishment of internal and external interpersonal relationships should grasp the highest enthusiasm for people, make good use of the time gap for completing important work, and communicate with colleagues and bosses at lunch time or during work breaks. Under the premise of not affecting the achievement of work goals, good communication will definitely promote the work to be completed more efficiently. 2. The wider the interpersonal relationship and the wider the road, the easier things will be. This has been verified by countless experiences and lessons. An excellent person can often accept and influence the people around him, and opportunities are directly proportional to his communicative competence and the scope of communicative activities. Therefore, we should link communication with seizing opportunities, so as to give full play to our communicative competence and expand communication continuously. Only in this way can we find and seize rare opportunities for development. Make your relationship with them better. Having a good network of contacts is the most important factor and a necessary condition for achieving great things. Second, interpersonal communication obstacles In interpersonal communication, people with unhealthy mentality often cannot have harmonious, friendly and reliable interpersonal relationships. In getting along with others, they can neither get happy satisfaction nor give useful help to others. In order to have a harmonious and happy interpersonal relationship, social psychologists have summarized the following common bad mental states, which female friends should try to avoid when interacting with others. 1. Inferiority mentality Some female friends have inferiority mentality in their communication with others because of their appearance, figure, cultivation and other factors. They dare not elaborate their own opinions, and they are hesitant, lack courage, used to echoing voices and have no opinions of their own. In communication, it is impossible to provide valuable opinions and suggestions worth learning from others, which makes people feel that it is a waste of time to get along with them and will naturally avoid them. 2, jealousy mentality Some people say that jealousy is a woman's nature, especially in the process of dealing with people, this female friend should pay special attention! In dealing with people, there are often the following situations: instead of praising others' advantages and achievements, they are jealous, expecting others to be inferior to themselves and even suffering misfortune. Just think, a jealous person will never pay sincere behavior in interpersonal communication and give warmth to others, which will naturally not make people like him. 3, suspicious mentality, the most taboo suspicion between friends, unreasonable suspicion of others. Some people always suspect that others are speaking ill of themselves, and there is no reason to suspect that people are doing things against them, catching shadows, and lacking the minimum trust in others. Such a person likes to gossip, which will make her friends think that she is a troublemaker and avoid it. 4, selfish mentality Some people always want to get some benefits when they get along with others, either aiming at other people's seats, or trying to get some benefits from others, or for the sake of one thing, if the other party does not help themselves substantially, they are unwilling to associate with each other. This selfish mentality is easy to hurt others, and once others recognize their true colors, they will resolutely stop interacting with them. 5, the game mentality in the interaction with others, lack of sincerity, treat other people's friendship as a joke, with dance academy's attitude, no matter who you associate with, there is no deep communication of mentality, and you like to make superficial articles. When others need help, they often run away, and such people can't make real friends. 6. Indifferent and narcissistic, thinking that you are a phoenix among people and a fairy in the sky, and you are the best in the world. You regard communication with others as charity or favor to others. I feel very good about myself, always standing on top, holding a shelf, and looking proud and indifferent, which makes others afraid and unwilling to approach, so naturally I won't have friends. 7. Prejudice mentality is liberal to oneself, and everything is indulgent; Marxism-Leninism, caring about everything, and extremely mean. Because of one thing, I hold a grudge against others, and I feel resentful. From then on, I decided that the other person is not worth interacting with. Such people often go to a dead end in interpersonal communication, haggle over everything with others, and have fewer and fewer friends. Because no one will never make mistakes, and if he doesn't know how to forgive, he won't have friendship for a long time. 8. Camouflage mentality Some people are always used to disguising themselves in reality, and they often show their unreal side. If a person is always good at saying sweet words and sending "sugar-coated shells", it will be acceptable at first. But after a long time, not only can you not make true friends, but your mentality will also be suppressed. I won't feel my existence when I'm with someone who is too strong. Making friends is not for us to choose the perfect ones with our eyes, but for us to attract like-minded people with our hearts.