If I am single, unmarried and infertile, I don't have to worry about the family affairs of him and his possible marriage partner. I can support my parents by myself. When I get old, I can buy old-age insurance before I retire. When I retire, I can enjoy this national policy and get some pension.
? I live alone. I don't have to worry about my children, my parents or anything. I can live happily alone. I can arrange for myself to go to a nursing home, play cards with some old people my age, bask in the sun, take a walk and dance square dance. Anyway, I have retirement salary and pension. Living alone when you are young, of course you can when you are old.
? I can raise flowers, walk dogs and cats, and be a happy old man! And I think if I get married, I'm tired of raising children, and I believe they will be tired of raising me, so I might as well be alone.
Unmarried infertility doesn't mean that we don't understand the world. We just choose an unusual way of life, not to say that we are freaks and don't know how to enjoy life. There is a living method in a person's life, and a person's world can be beautiful and gorgeous. Instead of spending a lot of energy on things you don't love, why not spend this time enjoying the beauty of the world? Isn't it attractive to live a life where one person is full and the whole family is not hungry? Don't worry about your child's grades, your husband's cheating, getting angry and quarreling because of trivial things in life, and whether the money you earn is enough for your family expenses. ......
I still like being alone, quiet and plain.