The same is true in getting along with others. How to get along better with the other half is learning from beginning to end. It is a spiritual journey to cultivate one's heart and a way to know people in the world.
parents always urge their children to fall in love and get married, and they think that their children have high eyes when they don't like blind date. Is this true? The vast sea of people, why is the soul incompatible? The answer is in the title!
three views are different, and you will never be the same person.
What is the ideal relationship between two people?
Taste is consistent and three views are consistent, but we always talk about three views. Why three views? The world outlook determines the methodology, and how to look at the world will choose what kind of way to deal with problems.
it is said in the book "Zeng guang xian Wen": wine meets friends, poetry is sung to people, people know each other all over the world, and how many people can know each other.
People walk among all kinds of people all their lives, and it's relaxing and pleasant to associate with people with the same three views, such as the spring breeze. On the contrary, as long as you have been in contact with him once, you can't wait to see him again in this life:
You like reading, but he thinks reading is a waste of time and calls you a fake literature and art;
You like exercise, but he thinks it wastes energy and says you have nothing to do.
You like traveling, but he thinks traveling is a waste of money and says you are too idle.
Just as you said that the sea was beautiful, he said that people had drowned ...
It is called "Bar Spirit" on the Internet. Can such people chat together?
people with the same three views will meet at a distance of thousands of miles, while people with different views will be strangers at close range.
We are not RMB, so we can't satisfy everyone, but at least we can find some companions with similar interests and views.
in the end, the character is the key to feelings. Mencius said, "Those who gain the Tao will help more, but those who lose the Tao will help less." Whether a person is worthy of deep friendship ultimately depends on his character.
people with poor character are indifferent at heart, and they only do things to please themselves and never consider others.
The world is in turmoil, and chaos blinds our eyes, blinding our hearts, and we must always keep the right path.
There is a high probability that you will meet 29.2 million people in your life, but only a handful can really stay with you. Others are just casual acquaintances.
Yang Jiang said, "When you are in a high position, all you see are flashy spring dreams; When you are humble, you have a chance to see the truth of the world. "
People come and go in a hurry in this life:
Once you die, you know friendship;
being poor and rich is a state of knowing each other;
when one is expensive and the other is cheap, friendship is seen.
when you are successful, someone comes to please you; When you are lonely, you can see people's hearts clearly.
who is true or false depends on who helps you at the critical moment; Who is good and who is bad depends on who will block you when the wind and rain hit; Who is empty and who is real depends on who misses you for a long time.
the horse power is known from a distance, but the truth is seen from time to time. I want to know whether a person is worthy of a lifetime, and I am fully aware of the disaster once.
If we say that a true friend is a golden breeze and a jade dew, it will overcome countless beautiful things in the world; It is the steadfastness of and yet, while China holds our friendship and and heaven remains our neighbourhood; It's a glass of wine with peach, plum and spring breeze, and the yearning for a decade of night rain in the rivers and lakes.
what about love? Can we stand not seeing each other for many years, and when we meet again, it's like getting along with each other day and night. Is there no gap in our hearts?
It's not that I'm not in love, not that I'm not married, but that I've never met that person ...