At first, girls launched the offensive because they were curious about boys. It is said that men chase women across mountains and women chase men across heavy sand. The result is self-evident, and they have established a relationship. They came together and had all kinds of troubles in their lives, but they all got through it.
Later, they walked into the marriage hall together. It's been a long time since we met each other, but each has no sense of security. The boy is afraid of the girl leaving because he has nothing but a heart. Just because a girl thinks what a boy doesn't have now doesn't mean that a boy won't have it again. But boys don't realize what girls think. He only knows how to treat that girl with what he thinks is good.
So they often quarrel, but there is no crux. Sometimes quarreling will make you laugh, and sometimes boys will make girls happy. For six years, they have lived like this, sometimes happy and sometimes depressed. I've never reflected on myself, and I probably think I'm right.
Recently, the two divorced because of economic problems. Boys advocate saving and girls advocate consumption, which run counter to each other and have been treated coldly for half a year. In the past six months, the boy reflected on himself and gradually found his own shortcomings. He found that although he was kind to the girl, he restricted her freedom and controlled her economy. I find myself getting farther and farther away from girls, and I always want to have a heart-to-heart talk with girls, but girls always avoid boys because they are disappointed with them.
In the past six months, the boy has been uneasy, and his heart is always on tenterhooks because of the girl's attitude. Boys want to change, but don't know how to tell girls. The Chinese New Year is coming soon. The boy has found a girl, and all eight people want to send her. No matter right or wrong, I told the girls at once. The girls were in a mess and didn't know how to answer the boys.
That's all for the time being. What I want to say is that marriage is the goal of two people. Since we have chosen, we should insist on mutual tolerance and understanding, have more heart-to-heart talks and understand each other more. Life is not easy. If you love it, stick to it.