On January 27, 2020, I slept until 7 o'clock and weighed 71.4KG.

?Why do you have no friends when you are down?

The reason why we have this question is because we do not understand the nature of society.

"Economics" tells us that people are the sum of social relationships, and the basis of interpersonal relationships is economic relationships.

That is to say, why would someone associate with you?

That is determined by economic interests.

What are economic benefits?

Economic benefits are things that can satisfy people’s needs.

Why do people want to make friends?

The main purpose is to exchange value with other people... To exchange value, you must first tell others: I have economic value and am worthy of being your friend.

When a person is down, it is equivalent to telling others that you have no economic value.

For example, if I am a chess master and you like chess, I have economic value to you and have economic benefits, so you want to be friends with me.

Why do you want to be friends with me?

You may subjectively feel that you like me...

However, this is not the case at all.

In fact, it is because you like to play chess and I am a chess master, so you like me, because I can meet your needs for learning to play chess, and I am in your interest.

This is the benefit.

Why do you have no friends when you are down?

Because:

Life is a series of transactions.

Most people interact with others for the purpose of seeking economic benefits.

When a person is in trouble, it proves that this person is not good at seeking financial benefits, so you will not gain anything from dating him.

So, when a person is down, he has no friends.

Being down and out actually sends a signal, telling everyone that this person is not good at seeking economic benefits.

So the value of being someone else’s friend is lost, and of course there are no friends!

Now you know why many people like to tell others that they are rich, right?

Their purpose is to tell you: He has money, he has value, he is worthy of being your friend, and he is worthy of value transactions and exchanges with you.

This is the real purpose.

Therefore, when you are down and out, you have no value. Of course, you have no exchange value, and you have no friends.

After thinking about it, there are only three types of people who are suitable to be our friends:

1. Wisdom; 2. Power; 3. Rich;

Why? What about ranking wisdom first?

Because if you want to control money and power, you must be wise!

It is impossible for a fool to get promoted and make a fortune!

So, why are rich and powerful people willing to help the poor? That's because this poor man has mastered wisdom and has intellectual capital.

Well, many poor people like to say how miserable and pitiful they are...

Poverty and pitifulness prove that you are stupid.

At most, others will think you are a beggar. They will give you a few cents, but they will never promote you to be the boss.

Who is worthless? Foolish people are worthless.

Wisdom = money = power

As long as a person is not stupid, as long as he is smart...

No matter how poor he is now, he has value...< /p>

Because even if he is poor now, he will be rich in the future; because being wise means that if he has money and power in the future, he will have everything.

For those who only cry about poverty and say that they are pitiful, this is tantamount to telling others that they are worthless... and will eventually lead to no friends at all.

? So you must always show your value in daily life.