True friends are not in quantity, but in your heart, even if only one person can really walk into your heart, this is the greatest blessing and good luck.
I don't know if you have this feeling: in your life, you have had many friends, some have met, some like each other, and some have accompanied you through a journey. But when you fall into the trough of your life, you are in a bad mood and frustrated, but you can't find anyone to tell.
You are often in the crowd, but you feel a kind of loneliness that is difficult to tell others. You often laugh and laugh, but you are always eager for someone to understand your pain. You often act as if the clouds are light and the wind is light, but few people know that in fact, your heart is experiencing the pain of tumbling down the river. You push a cup for a change, get together, make friends and socialize, and be affectionate and righteous, but in fact, few people can really talk to you.
Someone once said, "One friend is good, two friends are more, and three friends are more." Partner, just one, not too many. If not, there is yourself. Be kind to yourself, get along with yourself and be friends. "
In fact, true friends are hard to find. Knowing more people who take part in accidental amusement is not enough to know someone who really understands you.
A true friend is not in age, but in heart-to-heart communication.
At one time, we were always eager to make friends among our peers. We believe that we can understand each other with similar age, similar background and similar life trajectory.
Some people are much younger than you and have rich and interesting life experiences. There are always endless topics and interests when chatting. Some people are much older than you, but they have a very young mind and are full of vigor. There is no generation gap and pressure to communicate with them.
Compared with people your age, some people may be awake, but they are always confused and have no consciousness. Their ideological level and realm can't communicate with you at all. And some are secular and kitsch at the age of innocence and romance. Even if you talk to them for a few words, you feel extremely tired and exhausted.
Some people may be a little older than you, but they can communicate in depth even if they don't talk, which is very reassuring. And some people, even if they grew up with you, rarely get together to chat, play and talk.
What matters is not the gap in age, identity and status, but the gap in the heart.
People need friends all their lives.
Friends can solve your worries, know your sufferings, share your joy when you are happy, and give you timely encouragement, support and affirmation when you are sad. Even when you are desperate, it is comforting to remember that at least one person understands you. It's hard to imagine how bleak life is without friends.
In fact, there are not many friends, just heart-to-heart. Even if only one person knows, it is enough to deal with all kinds of troubles in this world. Friends, no matter far or near, just have a heart to heart. Even across the ocean, you can feel the sincere friendship of "However, China holds our friendship, and heaven is still our neighbor". Friends, regardless of age, just have a heart to heart. Even if the years are separated, there can be deja vu, deja vu and reunion after a long separation.
In the vast sea of people, it is really not easy to find such a bosom friend who shares your interests, treats each other sincerely and appreciates each other. So if you meet it, you should cherish it. Don't wait until you lose it to regret it, and then recover it.
If you're still looking, you don't have to make do. After all, not everyone can be a chat partner.
True friends, as long as they have a heart in mind, don't need to face each other day after day, don't need intimacy, even if they don't talk about it often, even if they have little contact, they can always care, remember and miss.
May the rest of my life be full of sorrow and joy, and may you be accompanied by the ups and downs of the years!