1. A small voice will affect your communication, communication will affect your business, your business will directly affect your performance, and your performance will affect your quality of life.
2. In normal life, it is better to treat yourself as an ordinary person. Don't think that you are better than others in some aspects, and you can't be unique. Sample will not only widen the distance with others, but also make others against you.
3. When you are young, everyone is equally ambitious and wants to be a swift horse that is appreciated and gallops on the battlefield, right? Then, let it settle down. On the court, being low is not equal to being inferior. Today's condescension is for tomorrow's job. The value of life means that our existence is valuable to others. Being used is a good thing, but being ignored is the real sorrow.
4. People meet by fate; The recognition of heart and heart depends on sincerity; Affection and affection need communication. Knowledge must be compared with the heart, and getting along with it must be based on feelings. Everyone has feelings, even the heart will be emotional. A feeling is all about understanding the heart; Every heart is tolerant of wind and rain. Treat each other with sincerity, so as to be concerned; Only when you are in harmony with your heart can you understand your heart and feelings. Cherish fate and walk with heart, be kind to feelings and let love go with you.
5. Three philosophies of a pair of shoes? A pair of shoes, Nike's more than 6, Li Ning's more than 4 and Xtep's more than 3, so what brand you are is very important? A pair of shoes, which can only be sold for tens of yuan in a stall, will rise to hundreds or even thousands in shopping malls and specialty stores, so where do you stay is very important? A pair of shoes, without one, is worthless; Therefore, your other half is very important. The value of professionals is the same as shoes, and they need brands, platforms and teams.
6. You can tolerate poverty and not betray your personality; Can pursue wealth, not profligacy; Can express differences, can't stir up right and wrong; Don't be a good person, don't do evil; You can not be a gentleman, you can't be a villain; Can tolerate sloppy, can't tolerate decadence; You can have no degree and no taste; You can be charming, but you can't indulge in excess; You can't say thank you, you can't help but be grateful.
7. A truly attractive woman is full of talents in her career and knows how to show her wisdom and give full play to her talents in social activities. Charming women talk elegantly in front of men, showing women's beauty and wisdom, alertness and thoughtfulness incisively and vividly.
8. A person's life is doomed to experience a lot. I have experienced more things, maybe my mentality will become broader, a profession, a kind of thing, since it exists, there must be a reason, and someone needs it, there will be a market, but I just haven't touched this page yet.
9. White-collar workers who have worked hard for several years in the workplace have obviously left the classroom and no longer have to worry about exams, but they often dream of going back to school and sitting in the examination room again, and they often answer blank papers in their dreams. It is the most common dream that white-collar dream patients encounter.
1. Whether you have just started a new job or have worked in the same job for many years, it is a wise practice to write down the job description and responsibilities with a pen. You need to know your current role accurately, because once you fully master your job, you can be promoted.
11. Pony's creativity or design has been appreciated by the boss. Although you are sad and even a little jealous for your unsuccessful design, you should praise Pony within the hearing range of your boss: Pony's idea is really good. In the infighting workplace, being good at appreciating others will make your boss think that you are kind in nature.
12. Never have a face-to-face conflict with people in the office. Think about your personal interests carefully. If you can blend in with your colleagues around you and maintain your independent personality, it shows that your workplace EQ is still quite incorrect and promising.
13. 1. When accompanying guests or elders to the door of the elevator hall, press the elevator button first; 2. When the elevator arrives and the door is opened, you can enter the elevator first, press the door opening button with one hand and press the elevator side door with the other hand, so that the guests are advanced; 3. After entering the elevator, press the floor button where the guests want to go. Although the elevator is small, etiquette matters a lot. Hold elevator etiquette and be a professional.
14. When facing an opponent with equal strength, people are full of fighting power and passion, and when facing someone weaker than themselves, they can't bear to make a move. That is, punching a person in the face who is very different from himself does not prove that he has strength. If they appear on an equal footing in the social field and academic circles, he will secretly strive for strength, express his neglect of her with loose strength when shaking hands, suppress her momentum with heavy drinking, and have a loud voice to read his paper vividly.
15. First, those who make shallow remarks cannot make deep friends; Second, gossipers should not fraternize. Third, those who are afraid of chaos in the world should not fraternize.
16. For newcomers in the workplace, it is not a good thing to be eager to perform. Being safe is the key, and it is very important to exercise patience. After graduating from master's degree, Song Zilin entered a foreign trade enterprise to work, with a professional counterpart and a high income. Full of ambition, she really wants to make some achievements. In order to win the favor of her colleagues, she is not only enthusiastic about the tasks assigned by her boss, but also works overtime and often does something extra.
17. Compared with love, life is very short. Every day, I always hear that too many people are critical and responsible for love. Everyone can't accept that love is flawed, just because they can't really taste the true taste of love. Behind a love, there is always some compromise. If you are really in love, compromise is a kind of natural happiness.
18. A very important case has gone wrong. If you immediately rush to your boss's office to report the bad news, even if it's none of your business, it will only make your boss question your ability to deal with the crisis. At this time, you should say in a tone without emotional ups and downs that we seem to have encountered some situations.
19. The workplace is a place where interests are exchanged. People with good moral character often make many enemies, while bad people are smooth sailing. You don't have to harm others like bad people, but at least you have the ability to protect yourself. The easiest way for people to harm you is to take advantage of your kindness, and secondly, because you trust others.
2. Some people always want to get everything, but they are afraid of losing a little and are unwilling to give up. This kind of psychology often makes you suffer from loss and carry a heavy burden through every day. Sometimes it tends to amplify these difficulties and form pressure. The key is to give up the meaningless stubborn pursuit and seize the main event.
21. When you have just joined a job or transferred to a new department, you should not be smart first. First, you should be familiar with the environment and the personality of your boss and colleagues. Even if you are an expert, you should put a low profile first, and you should show your ability at critical moments to make others feel that you are hidden.
22. One minute on stage is ten years off stage. I have to have time to sit in the office, and only half a day is still dealing with some paperwork and necessary marketing planning. It has been said more than once that only when the audience is strong can there be a strong stage. One minute, ten years of work under the stage. Only when we do our best in the off-stage kung fu can we be comfortable on the stage. Staying in the customer's enterprise for years, we can't ignore our own base camp.
23. Being alive is also a kind of mood. Being poor is also good, being rich is also good, gaining or losing. Everything is a thing of the past. As long as you are in a good mood, everything is fine. Xu Nianhua, leaving a little helpless, will always lose some people, reluctant, just because of nostalgia. In fact, everyone's irreplaceable is just a psychological hint from you, and the distant back can't be compared with the oncoming smiling face.
24. Although the workplace is recognized as a jungle of predatory animals, people often say that newborn calves are not afraid of tigers, and they often warn newcomers to be full of fighting spirit.
25. People should not spoil themselves too much! You should learn to eat bitter when you should suffer. If you suffer, you will become a master! Nowadays, many people lack the spirit of hardship, and they are always picky about their work. Just like eating, picky eaters are always not strong. Only those who can take on more other jobs on the basis of doing their jobs well will grow faster and be valued by their bosses. Be afraid of hardship and tiredness, or you will have no future in your life.
26, self-confidence is not conceited; Patience is not careless; Loyalty is not foolish; Admit mistakes and not admit defeat; Old and not old; Modesty is not contemptuous; Communication does not go beyond the level.
27. old boys. Sincerely feeling heaven and earth, crying ghosts and gods. I am a sincere witness to life, and I will do my best if I want to do it. Give up, don't abandon, the fundamental thing is sincerity. Children perceive the world with actions, add points to themselves with results, and add luster to themselves with facts. Make a mistake, don't regret it, just work hard, don't ask about the harvest. If you want to be innocent of my heart, you will definitely get peace of mind. Old boys: Yes, I did. I really felt a little bit sad.
28. You must be proficient in accepting criticism methods, face the judgment of your boss, think that you are right, and you lack the ability to understand problems; Think you are wrong and you have no ability to solve problems-the best way to accept mistakes is to avoid talking about them. The latter one, don't talk to the boss about justice.
29. You will meet different bosses in the workplace, some of whom are fond of you and some are not good for you. Treat different bosses in different ways. The best way to be his confidant is to do what he likes. You must listen to everything you say. Even if you have dissatisfied ideas in your heart, don't express them in public. Be patient and put yourself in the other's shoes. Sometimes, we should stick to our inner thoughts and do what we think is right.
3. This picture circulating on the Internet reminds us that even if you look like a dog, there are still chickens who love you. External conditions are not important. It is most important to seize the opportunity and take the first place. If you look like a chicken, be careful of your friends, especially those who look like dogs.
31. Optimism and cheerfulness are good virtues, and there are many opportunities to please people. Always worry about your face, others will be afraid that you will fall out. If you don't catch it, you will leave. Don't hesitate when it's time to make a move. Be active in big and small matters, and be well-informed and stay away from it. Think that you are not talented, don't think that God doesn't care for you, and don't give up on yourself. Settle down and wait patiently, in fact, the opportunity is waiting for you to meet it, just hold your horses and get ready.
32. When two people are often together, it is inevitable that they will be careless, eat together, go shopping together and have classes together, but they often ignore the spiritual communication.
33. Excellent salespeople: Running outside the market, even sitting on the bus or subway, don't give up the goals around you, and try to befriend them. For a good salesman, cinemas, coffee kiosks and swimming pools are good places for him to sign contracts!
34. The workplace is an arena, and everyone can be your opponent. Even a partner with good cooperation may suddenly change his face. The more he knows about you, the easier it is to attack you, and the more you expose, the easier it is to be hit.
35. Don't take the initiative to criticize other colleagues in front of your boss, and don't shift the responsibility to others when your boss criticizes you. It is impossible for the company to call the other party out to confront it. Even if the boss is willing, are you willing? It is bound to bring the three together into a dilemma.
36. Try not to react before the subordinates have finished speaking. Another important content of effective communication is that employees' performance can be fed back to employees through performance interviews, so that employees can understand the gains and losses of subordinates' work in the past year, so as to serve as the basis for doing better or improving in the coming year.
37. To solve the problem, we should first start with "analyzing and understanding the present situation".
38. There is no rehearsal in life, and there is only live broadcast. Time is a great author, and she can write the future ending. In life, understanding can produce miracles. Solution can save emotional losses; Understanding is like a torch, which can illuminate the road paved by anxiety, resentment and revenge.
39. It's harmful to treat colleagues as confidants. The workplace is an arena. Everyone may become your opponent. Even a well-cooperated partner may suddenly change his face. He knows that you are more and more likely to attack you, and the more you expose, the easier it is to be hit.
4. Consulting is a kind of life. Sweat on sunny days; In the stormy years, self-reflection. Ning road, hard road, sunny road, happy road ... are all the transmission of their own mentality and their own choices. However, if you choose, you must go on. Consulting is a kind of life and a kind of career. I have been walking for many years and still need to walk firmly. Comrades go through thick and thin, hand in hand, achieve others and make themselves.
41. Your performance is far ahead, but your skill alone can't bring you to the top of your career. At most, you can win a word or two of praise from your leaders occasionally, and promotion has never been with you. Perhaps the problem lies in your unsociable communication.
42. You really need to make friends in the workplace, but don't rely too much on your friends, and keep a certain distance from them at work. The best colleagues and friends should be such people. You work together, but there is no conflict in the division of responsibilities.
43. Many times, travel is just a nominal excuse. Students just need to go to a strange place, where there is no overtime work, fierce competition in the workplace, hidden rules that make people feel anxious and overly complicated interpersonal relationships. The key point is that we can temporarily forget the great pressure brought by the cruel real life and get a rare opportunity to recuperate our unbalanced body and mind.
44. People who are good at solving contradictions are certainly masters of social interaction, while those who are good at avoiding contradictions are the best among the masters. At work, there are many contacts with colleagues, which will inevitably lead to some contradictions, but some contradictions must be avoided if they can be avoided.
45, career key decision, choose the right horizon, choose the wrong regret for life.
46, many people in the workplace will feel confused: they obviously work hard every day, keep their own place, and ask themselves that they have not had much conflict with others, but they have unconsciously become a nuisance in the eyes of colleagues, which is often because you have not paid attention to some small details in your work.
47. While working, many people forget the common sense that work requires paying. Some people hate work, hate going to work, hate facing the working environment and people around them, and even hate everything related to work. It is definitely a loss.
48. Don't think that there is no cause for success or failure. Today's bitter fruit is the foreshadowing of yesterday. The present effort is the flower of tomorrow. Above people, treat others as human beings; Under people, you should regard yourself as a person. There is no complete happiness if there is partial forgetting. You can force others to love you, and you can only try to make yourself a worthy person.
49. Many people have heard the saying: "Where there are people, there are rivers and lakes, and where there are rivers and lakes, there are struggles. In fact, when you step into the workplace, you also step into the "Jianghu". The danger of the lake lies in people.