Many narrow-minded men are very narrow-minded, and they are very limited in seeing problems. It is easy to frame themselves and go to extremes. This kind of narrow-mindedness, which we call the lowest stage, is best avoided, otherwise we don't know what terrible things he can do.
Second-order petty men are jealous. Jealousy is not a woman's specialty. Some men are particularly ashamed of others' kindness and cannot openly accept that others or competitors are more successful than themselves. I always like to hurt others behind their backs and speak ill of others to show my ability, lacking the mind and courage that a man should have.
Third-order narrow-minded men tend to bear grudges, haggle over every ounce, love to take advantage of petty advantages, have a lot of minds, like to be clever, and love to get into the dead end. Such people can't let themselves suffer, and they must pay back. He cares about both work and life, big and small.
Fourth-order narrow-minded men are short-sighted, unable to walk out of their comfort zone, afraid to try new things, stick to their own turf, unable to give up the old situation and unwilling to accept new opportunities, so it is difficult to make great development and achievements.
Fifth-order narrow-minded men are selfish and do everything according to their own ideas, without considering others at all. Whether at home or in society, the essence of interpersonal communication is value exchange. Only when you earn money to support your family will your wife be willing to pay more in the family and take care of your family and children more willingly.
No matter where you are, you need to pay for each other and achieve each other in order to harvest a better life together.
Sixth-order narrow-minded men are always suspicious and extremely insecure. They are generally suspicious and easily undermine the trust between husband and wife in family life. It is easy to lack the most basic trust and respect in society, so it is doomed to fail, as if others are taking advantage of him.
The highest level of narrow-mindedness, is a certain obsessive-compulsive disorder, perfectionism tendency, for the inability to change the imperfections, always with their own hard. However, this narrowness actually has some good points. For those who do things wholeheartedly, the spirit of persevering and pursuing Excellence is still commendable.
You just need to adjust your mentality a little, try and make mistakes in small steps, iterate quickly, finish first and then improve, which will make you more successful.
As the saying goes, "a big belly can accommodate things that are difficult in the world." To be a man, you must be broad-minded and broad-minded, so that you can embrace the world. So, do you still want to be a narrow-minded person? Look where you are.
I am @ Yayaya, an emotional master with temperature. Like, I remember to pay attention.
Most people think men are louts, but they are not. There are also some narrow-minded men around us. Their personality is more sensitive, like women, more feminine. Look at narrow-minded men, they often have these five characteristics:
Psychology: a narrow-minded man
1, delicate mind
Narrow-minded men are often more delicate. They pay great attention to details and take care of people. Once they are kind to a person, you won't notice the meticulous warmth.
I know a narrow-minded man who is super gentle with friends around him. Every time he goes out with his friends, whether for dinner or by car, he will do the details well. It can be said that with him around, his troubles tend to be less.
2. Sensitive personality and strong self-esteem.
Generally speaking, narrow-minded people lack confidence. This sensitivity may come from parents who were criticized too much when they were young, so they often lacked confidence and courage. They need others' affirmation and self-confidence, so they make him more sensitive to what others say.
On the other hand, narrow-minded men tend to have strong self-esteem. If others offend them, they will easily walk into a dead end and be jealous. So when you get along and communicate with narrow-minded men, remember not to offend their self-esteem.
Psychology: a narrow-minded man
3. Emotional instability
Narrow-minded men are often ups and downs because of their sensitive personality and emotional instability. Sometimes their personalities become better, such as a gentle breeze and drizzle, but they go on the rampage when they are not good. This extreme personality attack often makes people around you feel incredible.
In fact, this is mainly related to their attention to details, because they often find details that others can't notice, and on the other hand, they care too much about what others say, so narrow-minded men have weak emotional control.
It is often easy to fall into all kinds of emotions, whether angry or angry, they will be more moved than the people around them, which is also their biggest weakness and fatal injury.
4. Being selfish
Narrow-minded people are often selfish. Generally speaking, this kind of selfishness has two manifestations, one is to live in one's own world, and the other is to haggle over one's own efforts, so it is often said.
They will be short-sighted, and once something fails to meet their expectations, they will stop acting, which makes it easy for them to make friends or work.
I hate narrow-minded men, and I believe more people don't like them either. In my opinion, there are two kinds of narrow-mindedness, one is asking for money in person, and the other is feeling, which is acceptable if it is not special. After all, emotion is the premise. It also proves that the other party attaches importance to the relationship between themselves and two people. The second kind of money is annoying. Moreover, such a man can't do great things in society, and he is too haggle over every ounce. He can't get along with people outside. He can't go far without connections. Of course, it doesn't mean that he is a friend when eating and drinking outside, and it is not encouraged. There are too many calculations for women, and women are not stupid. She knows what you think, but she is willing to accept it or not, or how to treat your interaction. Women, not all women really want to spend all men's money, just occasionally express it, or a small gift, which she thinks is your attention to her and your love for her.
Thrift is an ancient family heirloom in China, but being too thrifty is narrow-minded, which is not a good phenomenon. I heard an old man tell a true story: a pack of cigarettes costs 70 cents, so how can this man save? For example, if you buy seven cigarettes, you will lose a dime, and if you buy nine cigarettes, you will lose three cents. Another person, her son bought her a leg of lamb last year, and she is still reluctant to eat it. Such people haggle over every ounce and know nothing. Most little people.
Met it! Haggle over every ounce, sulking over a trifle,
If you can't find it, you will try your best to harass people around you.
Emotional intelligence is so low that I can even calculate how much I spent on you ~
Met it. Not generous, calculating everywhere, being angry and holding grudges will make people feel uncomfortable, and they will be deducted when they invite them to dinner, and they also like to speak ill of others behind their backs.
The fifth one, um, I have it. I don't like such people, especially men, who make people feel uncomfortable, especially being stingy and narrow-minded in money.
Yes, my husband is like this. I'm not allowed to talk to men too much and wear too light clothes. I can be narrow-minded anyway.
Sensitive, suspicious, suspicious, narrow-minded, dark, often have a villain's heart. This kind of man is everywhere in life.
Quite a few.