It is undeniable that part of the reason why urban women are single comes from excessive demands on their partners, but it is obvious that this is not the main factor causing singleness.

In the latest episode of "Sending One Hundred Girls Home", musician A Si mentioned that when his career becomes successful, his parents will ask him to lower his standards for choosing a spouse. Because in the eyes of Ah Si's parents, their daughter's career success will make her stand at a certain height, and when Ah Si looks down at men, it will be difficult for her to find love of her own.

It is true that with the rapid development of society, people are exposed to more and more things, have stronger and stronger abilities, and are more and more tempted. Sometimes some people lose themselves in the excitement, are unable to correctly locate their position, and tend to aim too high. Girls want to marry tall, rich and handsome men at every turn, and boys want to marry Bai Fumei secretly. They completely ignore their own strength, and even look down upon ordinary people of the opposite sex, thinking that they are not worthy of them.

Indeed, to a certain extent, this factor has led to some urban women being single, but not all of them. There are many reasons why urban women are single, including but not limited to the following aspects:

First, they are increasingly less dependent on men. Today's young women are generally more independent. They earn and spend their own money and live a happy life. Young girls will feel that there is no need to fall in love or get married, because for them, the opposite sex will only reduce their quality of life and restrict their wings to fly to freedom.

The second is that women lack ways to find their significant other. Although today's society is technologically advanced and socializing is very convenient, it has also greatly accelerated the pace of life. Whether they are young women or men, they have endless work on hand. Due to this restriction, they have no time to expand their social circle. This will prevent young people from being exposed to enough members of the opposite sex and greatly reduce their choices.

The third is excessive pursuit of love. Some young men and women drink too much "poisonous chicken soup" and watch idol dramas that are too "idol", so that their understanding of love is idealized and simply unrealistic. I worked hard to pursue the so-called love according to the standards in my mind. In the end, I never expected that I was already over 30 years old.

In addition, young people’s pursuit of material things, fear of marriage, and many family factors may lead to them being single. But no matter what, marriage is a very important thing for each of us, and everyone still has to correct their mentality.

We need to be cautious about love, but we also need to be brave and don't let our love have too many "restraints". Because this short life will eventually pass away, we must be bolder so that we can live our lives without leaving too many regrets.