There is nothing wrong with having a bad job and not earning as much as your wife. A husband and wife are very good together. You are weak and she is strong, or she is weak and you are strong. As long as the family is harmonious, it will be fine. If you want to change The reality is that you have to work hard to improve your status. As for making friends and getting along with colleagues, this is a normal thing that cannot and cannot be avoided. Don't feel sorry for yourself.