What if children don't like to play with children? First, don't label children easily. Try not to talk about children's shortcomings with others in front of them. If someone says in front of your child, "Your child doesn't seem to like playing with other children," you can reply, "That's not true. He likes playing with children very much. He will be fine if he is familiar with them for a while. " Children will be encouraged by your words and become the kind of children you say.

Second, guide the child to understand how he or she wants to communicate with the child. Sometimes children just don't want to make friends and open their hearts because they don't know how to communicate with their children. Therefore, parents should guide their children how to communicate with them, for example, let them introduce themselves first, and then ask them politely, "Can I play games with you?" Under the guidance of parents, children will also know how to communicate with their children, let them open their hearts and make friends bravely.

Third, encourage children to be brave and play with them. Behind children's unwillingness to make friends, there is also a desire to make friends. It's just that they are afraid of failure, children's ridicule, or they are afraid to make friends because of inferiority. At this time, parents should communicate with their children and encourage them. Parents' encouragement will be the first step for children to make friends and open their hearts to play with their children.

Fourth, children should be willing to let go. Friends are indispensable in our life. As the saying goes, the more friends, the farther the road. Therefore, parents should be willing to let their children make friends when they are young. If children have conflicts with friends, parents should not interfere. Children's conflicts should be solved by themselves. If the child can't solve it, parents can also guide and let the child know how to solve it. Parents should be willing to let their children go, let them open their hearts and be brave friends.

The reason why children don't like playing with children is 1. Children don't know how to get along with others. After all, children's ability to solve problems is weaker than that of adults, and they have less experience in making friends themselves. When you make friends with other children for the first time, you will inevitably encounter many problems in making friends. If parents don't guide them, then children may shrink back and don't want to associate and get along with others.

2. Parents are too protective. It is normal for parents to love their children, but many parents don't know how to grasp the boundaries of love, which leads to excessive love for their children and ultimately leads to their being too self-centered. Such a child is too conceited when playing with other children. Even if he does something wrong, such as hitting others, the child will not admit his mistake, because he never takes the initiative to admit his mistake. Go home. The child's wrong way of making friends makes his interpersonal relationship worse and worse, and there are fewer and fewer friends around him. In the end, it is impossible to integrate into the group, and children are not willing to make friends on their own initiative. Instead of admitting his mistakes, he will blame others for their mistakes and say that others don't know how to cherish him.