Kindness is just a beautiful trait. Everyone has many aspects. If you are kind on this occasion, you may do very poorly on that occasion. This person must have only seen one side, and he can make up his own mind that he knows how you feel on the other side.
You can make friends with kind people, but you cannot take advantage of kindness. I think you need to sort out your mentality. When you make friends, you give your best and make you happy. If a kind confession makes you uncomfortable, what do you want? What are friends? It is happy to give without caring about the rewards. If you give and care about who gets more benefits and who gets less benefits, this goes against your own mentality and the friendship will not last long.
Kind and principled people are a rare breed among human beings
On that summer night, an occasional breeze blew across the lake, blowing warm and moist air. The light is very soft, the electric car is parked by the bridge, and we lean on the fence beside the bridge. I asked him, why do you like me, he smiled and said nothing, I teased him, why do you like me, he said he just likes you, no reason. I saw the unfinished words in his eyes and forced him to speak. He looked at me seriously and said, I'm afraid you will change if I say it. You always have a rebellious mentality towards me. If I tell you something, It will definitely go west. I told you that you will definitely not do this again. I was dumbfounded, and after thinking about it, it seemed like this was true. Maybe at that time, I felt that we would definitely separate, so I wanted to know what he liked about me, so I begged him, and I said I promise you, no matter what it is, I will definitely do it. I won’t change it, I promise. He looked into the distance, leaving me with a profile that melted into the warm wind, and said lightly, "I like your kindness the most. Promise me that you will always be kind in the future."
My partner and I are both very kind people, but my kindness has no edge and is a rotten kindness. You can call this kind of kindness the Virgin Mary disease. The world is not suitable for everyone. Sometimes I think you have to be "hard-hearted" because bad people often take advantage of your good intentions. Goodwill is precious and not meant to be consumed.
But my boyfriend is not like this, he is very kind. He has a kind of kindness but restraint towards the world, which is a kind of warmth towards the world. It's soft and beautiful, you could call it gentle. Sometimes when I look at him, I feel that the world is very warm and that the world is worth it.
I believe that people who are kind-hearted and work hard will be happy. They are so gentle.
I will always be kind and believe in love.