I hope you can step away and look at the problem no matter what happens. If you always regard yourself as the protagonist of this story, I think you will never be able to see the essence of the matter clearly. It is even less possible to see a solution to the problem. The authorities are obsessed, but the bystanders are clear. If you can step away from your story and sit in the audience to read your own story, I think you will definitely understand more things! I must also know that you are now What should you do? In fact, love is a kind of fate that is even more chaotic than it can be cleaned up. In your own love, only you know the ins and outs of things best. The answers of others can only be used as a reference for you. The final decision is still yours. Go it alone, you must not use other people's answers as the standard for solving your own problems, because who knows your own affairs better than you? If you choose to fall in love, you also choose the ups and downs of love. There may be a day when we break up. Since we have chosen a process from beginning to end, then we have to face the process of love. Separation is not difficult to face, because two people are together for happiness. , if separation is to give each other more space to find their own happiness, then what else do we have to be sad about? Being happy is just a day, and being unhappy is also a day. We don’t have the courage to escape from this world. We still need to live every day, then Since you choose to live on, why not live each day well? How about living each day happily? When you haven’t planned to truly love others, please be kind to yourself and love yourself well! I think. Think about it, how much have you loved yourself? Isn’t it right? Face everything that happens around you with a calm mind, and you will find a way to live calmly in the world! I wish you happiness! A new relationship will help you forget the love you once had. Inflicting pain is the best solution. "This sentence is very true, but it is not so easy to fall in love with another person again. Before falling in love with someone else, what you need to do is to minimize the pain that love brings to you. For example, look down on him, let him no longer be the most important thing in your heart, and don't let him control the joys and sorrows. One day, you can deal with it indifferently, maybe it will be okay. 1. Don't forget deliberately, if you do so deliberately, you will only be able to do it. Let yourself remember it more firmly. 2. Try to keep yourself busy to enrich your life so that you have no time to think about it. 3. Try to expand your circle of friends and contact as many people as possible, maybe there is one of you in them. Mr. Right. 4. When you have to contact him, try to be normal and treat him as an ordinary friend. 5. Try to discover your own hobbies and do things you like to empathize. 6. Give yourself a bright smile every day and tell yourself "Tomorrow is another day." I believe that one day in the future, you will find that your heart no longer hurts when you think of him again. Unknowingly, He has become "that person". You can only forget but cannot forget if you truly loved the other person. The more you want to forget, the more you cannot forget. You always ask yourself if you have forgotten. In fact, it will only become Remind yourself not to forget. It’s just the opposite. Think more about how to live your life, have fun with friends, get to know more friends of the opposite sex, don’t think too much, go out and relax, and find your own happiness. You want to live a better life, so that you can slowly forget it. If you want to get back together, it is still possible. As long as you are sure that the other person once loved you deeply, he will not forget it so quickly after breaking up. If you are separated, If it's too long, it's impossible, because time can dilute feelings and sadness. If you just broke up with him, no matter how unhappy you are or how much you miss him, don't call him to bother him. You must give both parties a certain amount of space, and you must remain confident and firmly believe that it is his loss if he leaves you. Let yourself start over and find your own happiness. Don't always live with sadness, that is, when you are mature. When you have some time apart and you no longer feel embarrassed when you meet again, you should treat the other person as your most familiar friend. When you meet, you should say hello in a friendly way. You don't need to say too much, just show that you have lived a good life after leaving him. It's good, fulfilling and happy. (If both parties have changed their numbers, tell him or ask him for it.) Keep a happy smile, and the conversation with humor will be more effective. Don't mention the past with him even if it is just a short meeting. It doesn't matter if we chat for a short time.

If he lives a very ordinary life after leaving you, he will think of a lot of happiness about being with you when he goes back, and he will start to miss the past with you. When the time is right, you can contact each other by phone or text, and you are not allowed to mention you. Treat unpleasant events and past events (which are taboo) as if nothing ever happened and put yourself in your friend's shoes. I believe you will know what to do next! He will probably fall in love with you again because of your changes now! In fact, it is very simple, just change yourself and become what he likes. The most important thing is to be happy. I hope you can get the happiness you want, Jing is here to bless you! After falling out of love, we always like to ask: "How can I forget him? I really want to forget him, but I just can't forget him." If you can't forget him, don't forget. Why does it take so much pain to forget someone? Time will naturally make you forget him. Now, I ask you to never think about a big pink elephant. Please tell me, what do you think of? You immediately think of a big pink elephant. The harder you try to forget, the harder it is to forget. It is natural to still love him and never forget him, and there is no need to feel ashamed. Some people clearly cannot forget, but they deceive themselves and others and say: "I have forgotten him." However, as long as others mention him, he cannot control himself. One day, you will forget him. True forgetting requires no effort. One day, you came out of the bathroom and turned on the record player to listen to your favorite music. You suddenly remembered that you once loved someone. Ah, it turned out that you loved this person. It seemed like a very distant thing. , you have no feeling at all. This is forgetting. One day, someone mentions so-and-so, and you suddenly remember that you once loved this person, but now you no longer remember it. This is forgetting. If time cannot make you forget those who should not be remembered, what is the meaning of the years we have lost? !1!!! You should know how to do it now~ Come on! Do you have to forget it? The past is gone, but what remains are the best memories. Why should you deliberately forget it? Although we can't be together, you have wonderful memories!! I believe he will also keep your wonderful memories in his heart forever. Yes, loving someone means wanting him to be happy, but the prerequisite for his happiness is whether you are happy or not. Do what you want to do. Happiness and unhappiness are all in your own heart. Wait until time passes. In the past, when you find your significant other, you will keep your memories in your heart, and bring your blessings to him with memories. Let him let the past go. Short-term heartache is inevitable. But don’t let yourself forget anything deliberately, that will make it more painful. As long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy. Don’t think about deliberately forgetting someone. This will make it harder to forget, let alone forget yourself. If you feel annoyed when you think of someone, you should laugh it off. Over time, you will not lament your failure when you think of someone. It is not so easy to forget a person in your heart, and it is impossible to forget it completely. At most, you will only remember it. The number of times you see someone decreases, that’s all, so when you think of someone, think of them as much as you can, and tell yourself that now you can think of someone happily and no longer feel sad. In addition, you can also find some things you like. Do it, make yourself happy, and let your heart be free. Time is a good medicine to heal wounds. It is difficult to try to forget love. It's even harder to forget someone you love most. What does it mean to forget? So many years later, when you meet or mention this person by chance, you just smile happily without any distracting thoughts in your heart. But this is difficult to do, especially forgetting a loved one. Time will take away everything... everything will pass... and then slowly get better... After all, we always have to grow up... learn to be brave... A person must learn to be strong... believe in yourself... and happiness will come By your side.. There is no one who is wrong or right in love.. There is only one who does not cherish the other..