I have personal experience and am too active, but people think that you may have ulterior motives, so you are resistant and disgusted.
You can be a little reserved and keep a polite smile at strangers or strangers.
Everything should not be rushed, but should be gradual; You treat people sincerely. Over time, if that person is a good person, ta will definitely feel your sincerity and be willing to make friends with you.
Finally, what the other person doesn't like may be your dress or chat content. Read more books on emotional intelligence, and you will get something.
Don't worry, everyone is unique in the world, and existence will be valuable, depending on whether an individual does good or bad with his own value.
I hope you can find a true friend slowly. Of course, there will be many nodding acquaintances.