In fact, if it is like what you said, there is only one way to change yourself, and that is to improve yourself and make yourself skilled in a certain aspect. Moreover, others cannot do without you, and no one can do it without you. Can replace you so that you can live well.

Everyone has his or her own way of living in society. Some people have a unique aura. They have a father who is a high official, or a direct relative who is a high official. Then , he is in a unit, he doesn’t have to worry about it, someone will take the initiative to arrange his work properly, this is something that no one else can compare with him. There are also some people who can get along smoothly by relying on their high emotional intelligence. This kind of people cannot be compared to ordinary people.

Is there no way for an honest and introverted person to survive? No, if you meet an upright and fair leader, he will be able to see your strengths and your progress, and will encourage you. You may be reused, but if not, you don’t have to be discouraged and work hard. Just do your job well. If you can do something that others can't do in the field of your work, then your survival will not be a problem at all.

The unit I used to work for was the backyard of the family members of a certain department leader. The nephews and nephews of the minister, the family members of the department director, and the leaders’ connections. Such connections accounted for more than half of the total number of employees. Think about how difficult it is for a person with no backing or background to gain a foothold in such an organization. But I still found a difficult path that others were unwilling to take, and walked down it with difficulty. So after retirement, some people who wanted to do something in this field called me for consultation if they didn't know how to do it. Of course it's not that he can't do it without me, but if no one tells him the specific procedure, it may take a long time, and it may also cause unnecessary trouble in the end because of overlooking certain details.

So my principle is that you should not waste time on areas where you should not waste time, but should spend more time on improving your own abilities. If you have abilities that others do not have, you are still afraid What, what else is there to feel inferior to?