There are so many divorced men in the circle of friends.
With such conditions as men, if women have better conditions, they will not take a fancy to such men. Even if they are sentimental, they need to think about their future life. No house, no car, no savings, and they have a child. Obviously, after marriage, their life will be very difficult. Women nowadays are very realistic. How many women want to get married immediately and live a hard life, let alone be a stepmother and take care of their children.