Social skills are very important. If you have the ability to change, try your best to change. But if you really can't change it, don't worry too much, just let it be. Every inch has its strengths and weaknesses, and it is the most tiring and uncomfortable time when you are obviously not good at socializing but still force yourself to pretend to be a normal person. Just relax, be a listener, and laugh along. If you really can't get along, just play with your phone by yourself. The so-called others don't like you is actually mostly an illusion caused by your own anxiety. I'm not good at socializing either. I used to be very anxious. But as time goes by, I've become like this (thick-skinned). I've given up on taking the initiative to socialize. When people talk to me, I will try my best to respond in a friendly way. If not, I'll just be in a daze and play with my phone. Don't Asking for trouble and thinking about all this.