She told you so flatly, I think there are several possibilities: 1 She is very open-minded and doesn't take this seriously, so she speaks very plainly and doesn't feel moral burden. It doesn't matter if others know. She doesn't like you at all, so she just finds an excuse to refuse you, but I think it's a bit too much to find this interface. I don't know what unit you are, or whether you are a particularly mobile unit. She wants to develop a relationship with you . . But anyway, I want to say that she is not suitable for you. If she was a very stable and excellent girl, she wouldn't say so, whether it was an excuse or true. She is not a good girl by traditional standards. So, give it up. Nowadays, many girls are very casual, but people still have to have morality and responsibility and be calm, or something will happen sooner or later if they don't live openly. But I advise you to keep this secret for her, don't tell people around you, no matter what kind of person she is, we should be kind to her as human beings. If you do this, I believe it will pay off. There is nothing wrong with your moral bottom line, and socialization is not unsuccessful, but they are out of order, not that they are out of order, but that society is out of order. Social morality is chaotic, and many people have no bottom line, but choose to consider their own happiness at that time. Mind your own business anyway. Besides, please remember that you should never play ONS.