Two people who have never met each other, sitting in an unfamiliar environment, constantly looking for topics to talk about, it would be strange if it is not awkward.
I have always felt that blind dates are contrary to human nature. Neither of the two people knows each other. After being introduced by the seventh aunt and the eighth aunt, they have to sit together and decide whether they will have sex in the future. I feel like this is a very careless way to live my life.
I don’t know what people think now. As long as you go on a blind date, someone will ask you what you think? If you refuse without saying anything, then you are acquiescing to being friends with the other person.
Before I got married, I went on blind dates no less than 10 times. As a boy, I was really proactive, but the hard conditions were not strong and I always met him to death.
I can talk about various topics to see what girls like. But the girl is always very cold, and we can't seem to talk to each other. We don't have any common topics or experiences.
When going on a blind date, most of them are two people sitting together. The boy takes the initiative and the girl agrees. If they look at each other, this is the beginning of a relationship.
I once met a strange blind date. Even if I am not handsome, since you are here for a blind date, you should say something, right?
But no, the two of us sat in the coffee shop for nearly an hour. The girl said nothing except introducing herself.
Dating on a blind date is not awkward. What is awkward is that the two people don’t look at each other and are unwilling to talk. Awkward chatting is not scary, but the scary thing is that you don’t even want to talk.
If you feel awkward on a blind date, it means that you are not very satisfied with the other person, and the other person also has a lot of opinions about you. A normal blind date, even if we don't get together, can at least make a friend.
If a friend comes back from a blind date and complains about embarrassment to you, it means that the blind date has basically failed, and the possibility of the two people continuing to contact each other is very low. The blind date ended without any problems.
I actually met my wife on a blind date, but we didn’t feel awkward when we went on a blind date. As soon as we met, we felt like we had something to talk about.
We got married in less than half a year, which at least shows that blind date is an effective way to get rid of being single, but maybe you haven’t met the right person yet.
Happiness is always waiting for you not far away. This blind date failed, and there will be another time. I hope you can meet the person who makes you not embarrassed as soon as possible.