I was born in an inland province. After studying in the north, I resolutely went south to Shenzhen to work hard. At that time, it was really "unaccompanied" and "unaccompanied", and basically no one was familiar with it. I have made many good friends in Shenzhen for more than ten years, many of whom have been friends for nearly 10 years. In retrospect, there are some ways to make good friends in a strange city.

I have mainly used the following:

1. Cultivate a hobby of your own, and then join relevant clubs.

This is the most effective method. In a working city like Shenzhen, there are many young people and single people, so everyone has a lot of time and energy to spend, so there are many kinds of activities and clubs. As long as you choose something you are interested in and go to more activities, you can basically meet a group of friends, get along more or less, play together and have heart-to-heart talks.

My actual experience, in this way, I met a group of friends who simply love photography. It has been more than eight years this year, and several of them are "buddies" who can really talk and drink.

2. Find one or two friends among colleagues and develop into good friends.

Knowing and being familiar with colleagues who get along with each other every day is the best way. It is relatively easy to make good friends among colleagues consciously.

3. Go to public welfare activities

Generally speaking, people who participate in public welfare activities are simple and kind, with simple purposes and are enthusiastic. They are the type who can make friends with confidence.

In the process of doing public welfare, people with similar values will be particularly accommodating.

4. Go to some platforms to travel with the group.

Travel is a good way to test feelings, regardless of love, affection and friendship. Therefore, a group of people who travel from the same place have a great chance of becoming good friends.

If you really want to make bosom friends as soon as possible now, then travel with a group quickly, preferably by yourself ~

Teacher Mao Mao, TLI lecturer of mind mapping certified by Bozan Center (official account of WeChat: mind mapping).

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