How difficult is it? It is difficult to use the word like-minded. There are many kinds of friends, ordinary, good and very good. But good friends are not necessarily like-minded.
The so-called like-minded, is consistent with your ideals and ideas. The allusions of high mountains and flowing water have a long history, which can be described as the true interpretation of like-minded people. Yu Boya is good at playing, but Zhong Ziqi understands. It's hard to find such a friend who understands what I mean. Otherwise, why did Boya stop playing the piano after Zhong Ziqi's death? It is precisely because Boya believes that after Zhong Ziqi's death, there will be no bosom friends, and there will be no need for like-minded friends. You can imagine how difficult it is to meet a like-minded friend in life. ?
In this modern world, because two people have the same interests, it is well known and rarely envied by the world. The most famous are Marx and Engels. How enviable are these like-minded friends, but how many can there be in the world? How many people can be like Marx and Engels? Their ideals are the same, their ideas are the same and their personalities are the same. So we can be like-minded friends.
How many friends in reality can share the same interests with you? It can be the same as your ideal, compatible with your beliefs and your personality. For example, your ideal is to be a businessman, but all your friends just want to do an ordinary job and lead a dull life. So where can I find like-minded friends?
? Like-minded friends are hard to find. Otherwise, why do many people find it hard to find a bosom friend? In fact, it takes fate to meet like-minded friends. This is to see if a person's life can be satisfied. This is something that can be met but not sought.