1, the happiness of life lies in improving yourself in learning. Confucius believes that the greatest happiness in life is learning. Born ignorant, like a blank sheet of paper, what it will become in the end depends on the role of culture. The process of culture is actually a process of self-learning and self-improvement.

2, the happiness of life is like a spider's web, enjoy the happiness of making friends. The second life is the happiness of making friends. Man is a gregarious animal. The human world is not an island, but a spider web. People need to communicate and contact. Rock singer Zhang Chu said lonely people are shameful, and I said lonely people are sad.

The third happiness in life is the happiness of self-soul. People are often painful, and pain comes from the tearing of social evaluation and self-evaluation. Few people can go beyond this range. Few people can "watch me drink cheap spirits" as the French poet Baudelaire said, but I walk freely in the wind. "

A person's self-evaluation is often better than others' evaluation of you in reality, which is the so-called "halo effect". Initially, the halo effect was applied to the self-evaluation of others. Your evaluation of others is first based on personal likes and dislikes, and then based on this judgment, you can infer other quality phenomena of the cognitive object.

Perception of life

A friend at night is a day, but an angry friend is a joy. Walking on the road of life, there is no need to envy those who walk high, nor to despise those who walk behind. Because success is not the height of life, but the speed of life, which is at our feet and getting closer and closer at the moment.

Life is inherently bitter, and the root of suffering lies in various desires. If you have more money, you want more. If you are an official, you want to be bigger. If you have a wider house, you want to be more famous. Too much desire, too strong, will become greedy. Greed is like drinking salt water. The more you drink, the more salty you get. When greedy desire transcends human reason and all the pursuits of life, it will become the root of blocking happiness.