The following five situations are most likely to occur when a mute chats with a sister: 1. Speaking of the north, I don't know where to go. 2. It's too serious to talk like a national leader. Or talk to girls seriously. 3, others ask, just answer yourself. Then there is the question and answer. 4, I don't know what I want to say, and then every time it's uh-huh, oh-oh, haha. 5. Always tell some funny local jokes. I don't know which of these chats you are, but these are scary enough. Either way, it's enough to scare a girl away. Many boys are flustered when they are with girls they like. They are always thinking about what to say next, and then they have been thinking about it. Word, the atmosphere is embarrassing to the extreme. Chatting skills still need to be learned, for example, you can talk about some small things in life that you are interested in, and you can also ask each other if they have found anything interesting recently. Don't send vulgar love words as soon as you come up, don't let girls take selfies, don't send voices and some expression packs that ruin the three views. Of course, if your voice is quite magnetic and gives people a comfortable feeling, you can still try it. Everyone likes to be praised. Usually, praise girls more, from the heart, from the heart. If you say you look beautiful today, girls will be very happy, but not too happy, because what you say is too beautiful and too general. This needs to be put another way, saying that your lipstick today is really beautiful, suits you well and completely sets off your temperament, then she will have a very good impression of you. When a girl says a word, you must find the key word in the middle. For example, girls say that they are very tired in class today. The point of this sentence is that you are so tired, and then you can say: It's really hard. I'll buy you a cup of milk tea as a reward. What do you talk about? If you just met each other and don't know what they like in life, you can talk about what happened around you. In the process of chatting, you will know each other's thoughts and see if they are the people you want to associate with for life. In this way, the chat atmosphere will be relaxed and there will be no feeling of depression. Be careful what you say when chatting for the first time. As soon as you come up, say: I miss you, I love you, and will directly bring the newly established relationship to the brink of breakdown. This will also make the other person feel that you are quite a playboy psychologically. Some languages should be used with caution, and people will hate you if you don't use them properly. How to improve the feelings of new arrivals 1 Talking about the topic of interest to the other party is called the object, which means that the relationship has been determined, but the two people are not familiar at the moment, so there are often some embarrassing situations when chatting. To avoid this situation, we need to find a topic of mutual interest and then guide each other to go on. For example, if you suggest what kind of movies you like to watch, then you can ask each other out along this question and go to the movies together. 2. Praise each other more. Since you like this girl, it shows that this girl has a bright spot. You should tell her how you are attracted to her, how you fall in love with her, and let her know that she is very attractive. Girls will be very happy. If you can praise her often, you will get along well. There are many things to boast about, such as beautiful lipstick, beautiful hairstyle, beautiful clothes, natural beauty and so on. Girls like to get along with people who praise themselves very much. 3. Face-to-face dating on WeChat, which is quite popular social software. There is no chat topic on WeChat, and the two can meet. Although they will be shy at first, meeting each other can make them feel your aura. When a man goes on a date, he can prepare some small gifts and take the initiative to pay for dinner and movies. Since it's called a date, it's only fair for girls to pay the bill properly. Dabao sees you every day. Good night every day, good night every day, can make her feel that you care about him A person says good night to his girlfriend every day and perseveres, which shows that this boy loves this girl very much. The seriousness of a man who insists on saying good night every day is quite attractive. How to successfully strike up a conversation with a strange girl 1 is unconventional. If you are stupid, you can focus on sincerity and treat others sincerely, and you will get unexpected results. For example, when you meet a girl you like, but you are speechless and can't think of anything to say, but you have to say, you can say: I don't have time to think about countermeasures. Can I talk to you? Being so sincere will make the girl laugh. 2. Don't brag that a man's nature is pride. Men like to brag about themselves in front of women, and by the way, they will give a few examples of that year. The reason why I praise myself is to make girls envy me. This trick can only be said to be effective for some girls, but for many girls, it is a sign of arrogance and narcissism. 3, strike up a conversation naturally If others see that you are interested in hitting up her, then others will think that you are utilitarian and will stimulate people's defense mechanism. Don't touch any part of each other's body for the first time. There is also the need to have self-confidence, never flinch after being rejected, and make persistent efforts. You must be invited at least five times. If you fail five times, you can choose to give up. Don't hesitate to meet the person you like. When you meet the person you like, you must speak at the first time and look at each other at the first time. How do dumb people chat with girls? 2 People who don't chat with their sisters are most likely to have the following five situations: 1. Speaking of losing the north, I don't know where it came from. 2. The situation of speaking is just like that of national leaders, which is too serious. Or seriously reason with girls. 3, others ask, just respond. Then there is the question and answer. 4. I don't know what I'm talking about, and then it's always yeah, oh, oh, hey. I have been telling some funny earthy jokes. I don't know what kind of small talk you are, but these kinds are terrible enough. Either way, it's enough to scare off a girl. How to chat humorously? Many boys panic when they are with girls they like. They have been pondering what to say next, and then they have been pondering. Nothing was said, and the atmosphere was awkward to a climax. Chatting skills still need to be learned and trained. For example, you can talk about some small things in life that you are very interested in, and you can also ask each other if they have found anything interesting recently. How to find a topic? What are the good chat skills? (Emotional confusion plus tutor/letter, one-on-one analysis) Don't send out the routine of picking up girls as soon as you start, and ask girls to take selfies, let alone send out voices and some words that ruin the three views. Naturally, if your reputation is very magnetic and gives people a very comfortable feeling, you can still try it. Everyone likes to be praised. Usually, praise girls more, and praise them from the heart. If you think you are really beautiful today, girls will be very happy, but it is not easy to be too happy, because you think it is too beautiful and too vague. This must be called another way, saying that your lipstick today is really beautiful and suits you well, and your aura will be completely set off, then she will have a good impression of you. When a girl says a word, you must find the key word in the middle. For example, girls say that teaching today is very tiring. The key is that you are too tired, and then you can say: You have worked hard, let you buy a cup of tea shop to reward you. What do people who can't talk talk about? If you don't know what the other person likes for a long time, you can talk about what happened around you. In the whole process of chatting, you will also know each other's thoughts and see if they want to get along for life. The atmosphere of chatting like that will be very relaxed and not easy to feel depressed. How to chat humorously? Be careful what you say when chatting for the first time. As soon as you go up, say: I guessed you, I like you, and I will soon smash the newly established relationship. This will also make the other person feel that you are a very promiscuous person from the mentality. Some languages should be used with caution, and it will be boring without timely association. How do dumb people chat with girls? 3. How do newly engaged people enhance their feelings? 1. Talking about a topic that the other party is very interested in, called an engaged person, shows that the relationship has been established, but at this time, two people don't know each other, so there will often be some embarrassing situations when talking. If we want to prevent this, we should find a topic that both sides are interested in, and then guide the other side to say it correctly. For example, if you clearly indicate what kind of movies you like to watch, then you can ask each other out along this question and then go to the movies together. How to find a topic? What are the good chat skills? 2. Praise each other more, that is, you like this girl, which means that this girl has a bright spot. You need to tell her how you are attracted to her and how you fall in love with her, and let her know that her style is great and girls will be very happy. If we can praise her often, the atmosphere of interaction may be good. There are many praises, such as: lipstick looks good, head looks good, clothes and pants look good, absolutely beautiful. Girls like to associate with people who praise themselves very much. 3. Zero distance dating phone/letter, which is a very fashionable dating software. If you can't find a topic to chat/letter, two people can meet. Although you will be shy at first, meeting can make the other person feel your temperament. When a man goes surfing, he can prepare some small gifts in advance, take the initiative to pay for dinner and watch TV dramas. This is called a tryst, and girls should pay moderately and be fair and just. 4, Dabao sees you every day, good night and sweet dreams every day, which can make her feel that you care about him very much. A person says good night to his girlfriend every day, and perseveres without interruption, which means that this boy loves this girl very much. The persistent boy who says good night every day is very beautiful and moved. How to successfully strike up a conversation with an unfamiliar girl 1, be ingenious. If you can't chat, be sincere and treat others sincerely, and you will get unexpected practical results. For example, if you meet a girl you like, but you can't chat or say anything unexpectedly, you must say it, or you can say: there is no time to think about preventive measures. Can I talk to you? Such sincerity will make girls laugh. 2. It is proud not to brag about men's nature. Boys love to brag about themselves in front of women, and they will continue to list many examples of that year. Often romantic, in order to make girls envy themselves. This move can only be said to be effective for some girls, but for many girls, it is the main manifestation of self-righteousness. 3. Of course, if you let others see that you are interested in her, then others will think that you are purposeful and will arouse people's self-defense mechanism. You don't have to worry about touching all parts of the other person's body when you speak for the first time. There is also the need to have confidence. After being rejected, you won't be timid, keep working hard. You need at least five invitations. If you don't succeed five times, you can choose to give up. When you meet the person you love, don't hesitate to find a topic. What are the good chat skills? When you meet your beloved goal, you must speak at the first time, and you also need to speak at the first time when you look at each other.