The old saying: "There is more snow in front of the widow's door" now seems to be reasonable. If the widow is in trouble, let me take the initiative to help. I mainly consider these two factors: First, I am single; Secondly, widows are kind. In the long run, widows should get married and have a good home if possible. Single men can help widows without ideological burdens: everyone knows that there is no smoke without fire, and people are worried. People are not afraid of others gossiping, just don't want to affect family relations. A married man who has nothing to do goes to the widow's house to help, not to mention causing gossip, and a decent widow can't do it. Because, normal people should consider family problems. If a person is single and has no moral constraint to help the widow, he is single, let alone help. Even if he loves others, he can't criticize you morally, and others won't care about you except his parents who are unhappy. If I get married, I certainly can't take the initiative to help the widows in the village in order to avoid suspicion and marriage. We won't help her unless there are special circumstances and we need to help her urgently. It is better to have less contact at ordinary times, so as not to cause chaos in life and be bad for everyone's reputation.

Widows are kind and kind: As we all know, a kind woman is the most attractive woman. If you are asked to help someone you don't appreciate or even reject, to be honest, it is difficult for someone to take the initiative to help her. For example, if a widow has a bad style or is mean to her neighbors, will she be considered worthy of help? Of course, if this lady is friendly, if she is in trouble, I think the neighbors will kindly help her tide over the difficulties. Because no matter who it is, it has its own principles and bottom line. As long as this widow belongs to a normal person, as long as what she has done has not broken through the principles and bottom line of ordinary people, it is reasonable for everyone to take the initiative to help her. On the contrary, if everyone doesn't help her, there must be something wrong and everyone needs to reflect.

Widows have been a vulnerable group since ancient times. Some people often look at them with "colored glasses". In fact, they are just an ordinary single woman. For some reason, their husbands have become widows or orphans, and life is not even easy. Now, people are much more open-minded As long as widows love themselves, few people discriminate against this vulnerable group. Usually, a young widow can remarry and find a husband to take care of her. After all, it is not easy to be a woman, and it is even more difficult to bring up children. Relying on the help of others is not a long-term solution. It is better to marry someone who knows how to be warm and cold, and laugh at life. Don't be too bitter in this life.