It is said that men are very attractive when they reach middle age. Many women like to get along with middle-aged men because middle-aged men are mature enough and exude maturity, which makes them more attractive. .

However, when some men reach middle age, they become a little more adventurous, like to play with a lot of people, and like to make different types of friends.

It’s not a bad thing to like to make friends. After all, you rely on friends when you go out.

However, it should be noted that after men enter middle age, they must pay attention when making friends.

Especially when making female friends, be sure not to have close friendships with these three types of women, otherwise it will be easy to get into trouble, which is really not good for your life.

01. Women who often complain

Everyone knows that life is not easy now, especially as you get older, you will definitely face more and more difficulties. .

It is certain to have grievances. Women’s ability to withstand stress is not as strong as that of men. When encountering certain things, they may not have other abilities, so they will only complain.

So can complaining solve the problem? Of course it's not possible. Complaining will only make your life more negative and will do no good at all.

When making friends, men should not get too close to women who like to complain often. If a capable woman encounters something, she will definitely not complain, but will use her own abilities to solve the problem.

Only women who have no ability will complain all the time. When making friends, everyone will choose to make friends with capable people and make friends with people who will not complain. Life will be perfect.

I also want to remind women, don’t complain when something happens, it doesn’t make any sense at all. It will only make your life more colorless and won't help you solve anything.

02. Women who love vanity

Some women actually live a very vain life, no matter what they are doing, they are very vain.

Especially when looking for friends, they always have a certain purpose. You don't really want to make friends at all, but you want to get something from this friend, and you just want to take advantage of your friend.

If you say this, you will clearly know that making friends with such people is actually a very scary thing.

Because she can take advantage of you, but when you have something to do, she will definitely not help you. If she doesn't help, she won't say anything. She will also watch your excitement, and she will do it on purpose.

So men, please be sensible, don’t be dazzled by a woman’s beauty, don’t be with a vain woman, and don’t make friends with such a person.

Making friends with such people will not bring you any benefits. It may also affect your outlook on life and your life.

03. Women who like to have ambiguities with men

Some women think that they are quite good-looking, so they like to seduce men in various places, and they just like to be with different men. Being ambiguous is a way to prove their attractiveness.

You can’t say that their approach is wrong. After all, everyone has different ideas, has a different life, and has a different approach.

As a man, you must know that you should never be with a woman who likes to have affairs with men, and do not make friends with such a person.

Otherwise, she may really do such ambiguous things after you get together, and you will feel very embarrassed and intolerable.

Sometimes even if others have no opinion of you, you will have opinions of yourself and may even doubt your life.

Whether you are making female friends or looking for a girlfriend, don’t be with a woman who likes to have affairs with men.

She will have an affair with you and other men, which will make you feel that your life is very confusing.

Middle-aged men should have some small achievements, whether in family or career.

It is actually not easy to have these. You must learn to cherish them, so you must be cautious when making friends. Especially when making female friends, you need to be more cautious.

It is actually not a good thing for some women to take the initiative to pounce on you. It does not mean that you are attractive. Don't be carried away by this enthusiasm. Maybe she has a purpose for using you.

You must be more sober, especially men who have families and successful careers. You should be more cautious when making female friends, otherwise you may destroy these things with your own hands. .

It is even more important to learn to cherish things that are hard-won.

I hope that every middle-aged man will cherish these hard-won achievements more when you achieve something. When choosing friends, you should not only be more clear-headed, but also pay attention. Just be decisive and calm, don't be sloppy, and don't show any hesitation, because you are responsible for your life.