I don’t know when, the number of friends around us began to gradually decrease, and there were only a few we could contact.

What was originally a deep friendship between classmates after ten years of hard study turned out to be a dinner party where they showed off each other, ridiculed each other and tested each other's family background because of the class reunion.

After this year, everyone’s experience seems to have undergone tremendous changes.

In the past, class reunions could deepen relationships that had not been in contact for many years, but nowadays, gatherings between classmates are indeed long gone.

Some people even use such gatherings as a pretext to show off their wealth, and some people wander around class gatherings with their own petty ideas, flattering others and trying to use their classmates' connections to benefit themselves. Bring value benefits.

The friendship between classmates that should have been deep turned out to be difficult to maintain. We can even clearly find that most of the truly outstanding people began to boycott class reunions.

Even if some squad leaders want to use uniform clothing to alleviate this embarrassment, they still can't stop others from showing off.

Good friends who are truly in contact are still the same as before. If they are not in contact, if they have no use value, we will no longer communicate with each other.

Even if you attend a few more times, it is not difficult to find that class reunions have become meaningless social gatherings. There are many students who have their own agendas and are not pure-minded.

And those truly outstanding people gradually faded out from class reunions and disappeared from everyone’s sight.

Even being the quietest and most inconspicuous person among his classmates does not mean that their lives are not good. On the contrary, it is his own excellence that made him actively refuse such gatherings.

Why these outstanding people slowly disappeared from the class reunion can not be compared to these reasons.

If a person does not work for himself, he will be punished by heaven and earth. In today's society, most people interact only for their own interests and do not really want to make friends.

This type of people are keen on socializing. They like class reunions very much, which can actively connect people who seemed unimportant in the past, but now have achieved great results.

You can use such interpersonal relationships to achieve your own goals, and even turn classmates into your customers. Some people who cannot withstand such moral kidnapping will be dragged down by this type of people.

Many times classmates have bad intentions with each other. If you are a rich person, everyone will flatter you. If you look ordinary or even poor, everyone will stay away from you.

This is a very real phenomenon. They know very clearly which people can have regular contacts and which people are treated as invisible people who do not exist.

Meeting such ill-intentioned people will only cause trouble for oneself. Excellent talents will not waste the world in such meaningless social situations.

People who have made a little difference want to show off their achievements at this time.

It may be that he is just making a small fortune in an ordinary way, and he is not very impressive, but he makes the people around him look useless. He is arrogant and confident in doing things.

In fact, really good people generally don’t talk much and look very low-key.

Those who go to class reunions but wear brand-name clothes and drive luxurious sports cars, just to get praise and praise from their classmates.

And if you just wear ordinary clothes and don't even have the habit of paying for your clothes, others will think that you are not only poor but also petty. So just by dressing up, you will not be able to be gregarious no matter what you do.

Since everyone thinks so, there is no need to attend such boring class reunions. Only people who are empty and mediocre inside hope to stand out at class reunions and find their own sense of accomplishment and pride. feel.

Truly powerful people never bother to compare with others. What they pay more attention to is whether their life is fulfilling and happy.

For those who are busy with their career and life all day long, a party is just a formality, just a group of unfamiliar people playing with each other in the name of classmates.

A patient person may persist until the end, while an impatient person will leave in the middle of the party. Everyone is working and living seriously, so there is no extra time to waste.

In addition to work and family, time arrangements are full, and even various holidays will be occupied by various trivial matters. Whether you have time to attend class reunions is already a luxury.

Some successful people have less and less time to go home to see their parents, so how can they waste such precious time sitting and eating with a group of completely unrelated people.

This kind of party looks very lively, but in fact everyone is catering to others. Excellent people don't even need to think twice about attending such a party. They will reject it after just one glance.

Maybe refusing directly will be considered extremely rude and disrespectful to others, but how can excellent people pay attention to other people's worthless criticism?

A truly outstanding person sits there and relies on his own brains and hard work to start a business. Chatting with others is more about innovation and development, while gathering with classmates has no practical effect except nostalgia. .

Most excellent people prefer to be alone. They don’t have many friends in their social circle, but each one they bring out is enough to withstand other people’s group of friends.

Only cows and sheep gather in groups. Excellent lions are lonely. Sitting on the same occasion with friends who are not close to each other, drinking and eating meat, or even saying some high-sounding business words will only make people feel uncomfortable. Feel sick.

Even if you are not gregarious, you will not care about truly high-level and capable people at all. What you pay more attention to is the field that he cares about.

Moreover, the greater the ability, the more responsibilities he bears. The responsibility he shoulders is not only his own, but also the salaries of many employees, and these other students may not be able to see it, because they are different from each other. Their horizons and status are not equal.

The knowledge involved in the areas that can always be seen is not at the same level at all, so they are excellent and rational people and will not attend irrelevant class reunions.

The truly outstanding people are gradually withdrawing from the stage of the class reunion. They understand that if they want to become better and more successful, they rely on their own strength and wisdom.

If you sit together and talk with a group of people who don’t have the same three views, your thoughts will only be affected, and you will be disgusted by their idea of ??trying to follow others.

The rejection of a direct conversation is far more worthwhile than attending such a life-wasting party. Similar to this kind of class reunion, they don't want to go at all.

It doesn’t matter if you are called an unsociable monster by others. How can a good person care about such rumors?