1, make friends and don't put pressure on children. On the issue of teaching children how to make friends, especially what kind of people are forbidden to make friends with, many times, parents talk a lot, but children don't listen to a word. And if you blindly ask your child not to play with other children, he may think that you are autocratic and don't care about his thoughts at all, and then getting farther and farther away from you is often counterproductive. Therefore, at the beginning, it is better to let the children experience it first.

2. Communicate with your child more and learn about his relationship with friends. Children like to play with friends for many reasons, some of which are voluntary. Maybe his friends are very kind to him, and there are many things he admires and appreciates. But some people are forced to be helpless, because he may have made a bad friend. He doesn't like many things that bad friends do, but he doesn't know how to get rid of them. At this time, parents need to be properly involved.

3. Remind children of the criteria for choosing friends from time to time. Don't forget the scar. Children are very tolerant of others. Often in a short time, a little thing happens and he will play with those bad children again. At this time, parents must scold their children angrily. The clever way is often to explain to children what a true good friend is. Will these people help you when you need them? And when you succeed, will these people be jealous of you and even play tricks on you? Children also have their own judgments, and parents' suggestions from time to time will have a great influence on children's judgment of making friends. After all, blood is thicker than water.

4. Ask the school teacher for help. Parents can't always be with their children. The teacher can take care of him for you when he is at school. If necessary, try to separate the children's seats, or change classes, or even transfer to another school in serious cases.