1. When a girl doesn't know how to meet people, the best way to protect herself is to keep the bottom line and do whatever she wants. Just like when you are ambiguous, you don't do what couples do. Don't let the other person get the treatment of boyfriend during the ambiguous period, so as to avoid most of love rat.
After all, they have fish ponds and have no time and energy to accompany you. Don't always read each other's minds and guess what he means by being hot and cold to me. Does he always tease me and like me? Did he tell me this as a confession? Know yourself before you want to know him.
2. What do you think? If you want to get in touch with him, get along as a contact. Don't lose your rhythm just because your opponent's offensive is fierce or slow. Just know that the other person does not reject you.
If you don't want to develop any stories with him, don't make up your mind. Guess is an inefficient and energy-consuming thing. If you want to know what the other person means, you must first know what you mean. Don't trust the label given to you by anyone.
3. Open attitude. All truth must have its own subjective consciousness in it. He sees you from his point of view. So no matter what the other person says, you should listen with an open mind. When you change yourself to cater to the other person's taste, you lose your charm.
Some people like you because you have opinions and want to change you. Being an innocent girl will give him a great sense of accomplishment. The reason why I finally broke up with you may be: I like you with independent thoughts, not the person who sticks to me every day now.