People need "people to help others" to get along well in society. I always walk alone, and when I meet something, I don't even have anyone to discuss. It is estimated that it is very uncomfortable and difficult to succeed.

As an adult, good interpersonal relationships can help you accomplish many things. If you just fight alone, no matter how strong your ability is, you can't compare with the strength of a team, just "it's hard to speak alone."

when your interpersonal relationship is getting worse, there may be the following reasons. It will be easier to change the way of "being human" and increase your popularity. It will be easier to do anything and you will be more likely to meet noble people.

1

Poor communication skills, unable to speak.

Some people blame others as soon as they open their mouths. Once everything is screwed up, it is someone else's fault, which has nothing to do with themselves. They are always trying to get out.

Keep your eyes on other people's mistakes, and don't think when you speak. Whether at home or in the workplace, if you blame others, you push others out, which leads to "cold" interpersonal relationships.

some people like to chat, but they don't know what your focus is and what you want to express after chatting for a long time. I said a lot, but I didn't have a clue or logic.

for example, when you plan your work for next week, you will arrange this colleague to attend the meeting, arrange that colleague to attend the signing ceremony, and then return to the topic of the meeting. All your words seem to be intertwined, and nothing is clearly stated.

some people like to interrupt others, but the habit of interrupting has never been changed. Maybe what you said is very reasonable, but the way you speak is annoying.

Some people, who are just "stuck in a rut", never speak. When others ask for advice, you are also "hmm" and won't express your views.

People who can speak can not only express their opinions accurately, but also listen carefully to others and accurately grasp the key points of others' speeches.

As the saying goes, "Illness comes from the mouth, and disaster comes from the mouth."

people who can't speak are often prone to trouble. They are originally well-intentioned, but because of incorrect expression, others misunderstand themselves.

Besides, in today's society, everyone is very busy, and there is no one to chat with you. Only by being good at expressing can we make a long story short.

To be a good communicator is not necessarily to flatter others and say false words, but to grasp the opportunity to speak accurately, express your own views accurately and put forward reasonable suggestions, so as to make the relationship between people more harmonious.

In a team, a person who can talk can often become the leader of the team and is very cohesive.

2

Everything is self-centered and I don't know how to put myself in other's shoes.

Many people, when interacting with others, always look at problems from their own perspective, hoping that others will run around them and regard themselves as "the sun", and others are asteroids.

My classmate Xiao Wan is divorced, and she is very upset to stay at home alone. Xiaowan's mother wants her classmates to help her and enlighten her.

Xiao Hu of our class organized seven or eight students to go to Xiaowan's home together, hoping to talk with Xiaowan and help her get out of the shadow of divorce and cheer up again.

We invited Xiaowan to the hotel for dinner and chatted while eating. When chatting, we try to find some relaxed and happy topics and recall the beauty of our youth together. Classmate Xiao Zhang also wants to start a business with his classmates and open a large-scale farm trip.

Suddenly, Xiao Li, a classmate, said, "I thought at the beginning, when I got divorced, I kicked that man out and let him pack up and leave. I am a woman, still single, and I am not afraid of anything. How can you take marriage so seriously like Xiao Wan? "

Xiaoli's words made Xiaowan even sadder. Because Xiaowan is a sentimental person, not a careless person, which is very different from Xiaoli.

As the saying goes, "Go to the mountain and sing what song."

A person's words and actions should match the scene at that time and suit other people's moods and behaviors, instead of "talking nonsense and acting willfully".

If you learn to think from others' point of view, you can really help others and make useful suggestions. You understand others' difficulties with your heart, point out their shortcomings, and encourage others to be good, and you will make more good friends.

People are mutual. You can feel and help others with your heart, so when you are in trouble in the future, others will take it seriously and help you with their heart.

If you don't know much about others and things, then you should learn to "watch" and be a sensible person.

3

Too much pursuit of "unsociable", giving up all social activities.

Some people say, "Loneliness is a carnival for one person, and carnival is the loneliness of a group of people."

More and more people like to be alone and try to get rid of useless social activities. We always think that when a person is getting stronger, the more he needs to be alone.

In fact, if a person wants to be strong, he should learn to "fit in" instead of blindly pursuing "unsociable".

The strong need to join hands with others, and the weak also need to help each other. If a person gives up all social activities, he is doomed to fail.

For example, a hotel owner is "indifferent" to anyone, and it is estimated that customers will gradually alienate him and never go to his hotel again.

When opening a hotel to do business, you should greet people with a smile, and learn to cooperate with some people with interests exchanged. Only by treating customers as friends, suppliers as partners and treating every employee well can the hotel really prosper.

People mix in society. Good interpersonal relationships can make you even more powerful, while bad interpersonal relationships will only make you frustrated everywhere.

Being a man, character comes first. If you have a bad character and often do unethical things, or even do things that violate the law and discipline, then your interpersonal relationship will certainly not be very good.