Looking for Friendship

Friendship is by my side, talking to me all the time, giving me help, and making my life richer and more interesting.

I have gone through all kinds of hardships but cannot find my friendship. In fact, friendship is by my side. Is it playing hide and seek with me? No, he is helping me by hiding from me. It is encouraging me in silence. Later, I Gradually I found that it was too easy to find friendship. It was just that my method was wrong. To find true friendship, I had to correct my own shortcomings. One way to do this was to be close to the other person all the time. The party is guilty of When you encounter difficulties, use a broad heart to comfort the other person and help them solve their problems. In this way, when you encounter difficulties, many people will lend a hand to help you again. The second aspect is that you must be honest and trustworthy. , Don’t promise others things without trust. In this way, your integrity will touch the other person’s heart and you will definitely gain the respect of others. The most important thing to make friends and find friendship is to make good friends. Those who are helpful to you in study or life. People. The way to make friends must be appropriate. You cannot pay attention to the loyalty of friends and cannot be self-centered. On the contrary, it will cause harm to yourself. In daily life, when I am worrying about a number, you come to my side and carefully help me. I explained, enlightened me, and helped me get out of the mystery. When I needed scissors in art class, you put your scissors on my desk. When I forgot to bring my textbook in Chinese class, you I would like to read a book with me. These are friendships. This is true friendship. I have found friendship.

Friendship is smiling for me and waving to me. I have achieved my own friendship. Friendship It is ethereal, but the spirit of friendship is so noble! If each of us has this spirit of friendship, then what a united group we should be! With friendship, everything will go well for us.

I saw friendship, I knew what to do next, and I finally realized the harmony between people.

Friends are the ones who share happiness with you when you are happy; they are the ones who make you happy. He is the one who doubles your happiness when you are in trouble; he is the one who breaks down difficulties when you are in trouble; he is the one who helps you get rid of it when you are lonely; he is the one who encourages you when you are down.

Friends are what everyone wants to have. A good person is a person that everyone wants to be. To make everyone become friends and to consolidate the relationship between friends, we need something called friendship to water it.

About friends, in China we are We attach great importance to it. Traditional Confucianism attaches great importance to it. It puts forward "sincerity", "faithfulness", "benevolence" and "loyalty", which have always affected us, penetrated into our lives, affected our behavior, and become our rules for making friends." A series of stories such as "Looking for a close friend in the mountains and flowing water", "We are far away from each other, and we will finish the cups in our hands" are profound expressions of friendship.

"Rely on your parents at home and rely on your friends when you go out", this sentence illustrates the importance of friends It is important, and it also shows that the role of friends lies in reliance, and more importantly in mutual reliance. It is not the kind of behavior that is for personal gain, borrowing the name of friends and watering it with friendship, and blooming evil flowers. The difference between the former and the latter The difference is: the former relies on each other and helps each other, especially when friends are in trouble, they rely on each other, encourage each other, and help each other to get out of trouble; while the latter works hard to "water" friendship when friends are happy; when friends are in trouble, they stay safe and stay away. Go, what's worse, add insult to injury and add insult to injury.

"A friend in need is a friend, and a fire is gold." This is what we ask of our friends, and it is also a criterion for judging the authenticity of friendship. It shows that friendship needs to be refined and sublimated. The friendship that calls you brothers at the wine table and supports you when things are going well is not true friendship; but the friendship that gives you words of concern when you are proud and gives you sincere words of concern when you are down is true friendship. Because it is not only Don’t flatter because of the temptation of fame and fortune, but be verified and sublimated in difficulties.

“The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water”, indicating that making friends should have nothing to ask for. Only in this way can we be alone but not alone. Make life warmer and more comfortable.

In fact, friends who ask for nothing are rare. You might as well close your eyes and delete the friends who ask for anything one by one. How many are left in the end? Because really Friendship is "asking for nothing". She should not ask for anything, rely on nothing, and reject all contracts. It is always pure and fragile. Therefore, it is always easy to be confused and broken. Various books also introduce various prevention methods. There are ways to break up friendship, but those methods are all technical. Once technical means enter the emotional field, there will always be no good results. Friendship needs to be watered with heart and life.

Only by cultivating it with destiny can the brilliant flower of friendship bloom.

In short, we must not only cultivate right sentiment. Because we can have no achievements, but we can never have no friends; we need friendship, and we need to be wary of evil and prevent Hypocrisy and opposition to betrayal. Regarding friendship, let us end with the words of Mr. Yu Qiuyu!

Is it easy to come to the world once?

Is it easy to meet once?

Is it easy to call me a friend?

It’s still the same sentence——

Learn to cherish and be cautious

It is inevitable that there will be ups and downs on the road of life. , it is inevitable that there will be bumps and bumps between friends. But all the ups and downs and setbacks are indispensable stops on the road of life, and they are ordinary and natural. So, friends, don’t pay too much attention, and don’t let each other’s misunderstandings and trivial matters Small conflicts have withered the blooming flower of friendship between you and me.

Life is short and the sea of ??people is vast, but in this short life and the vast sea of ??people, you and I can get together and be together. Becoming close friends is fate. "We are destined to meet each other thousands of miles away, but we are not destined to meet each other across the street." Since we are destined, why should we care too much about the ripples caused by accidentally throwing stones in the lake of life? What's more, in the days to come, you will You will suddenly find that the ripples caused by the pebbles will become the catalyst to enhance the greening of the tree of friendship between you and me. Friends, don’t take it too seriously, step back and endure the calm for a while. Friends, be patient with each other and let life The sailing boat took us into the most beautiful lake in the season of youth.

Although the road of life is not smooth, and every day is ordinary, but since we choose to pick the snow lotus from Tianshan Mountain, since we have to go to the mountains to pick snow lotuses, I am determined to climb over the uninhabited mountains. Since I am determined to establish a permanent friendship with you, then the difficulty leading to our friendship is like standing on the top of Mount Tai and looking at the curling green smoke at the foot of the mountain. At this time, you can Don't be troubled by the ups and downs of life and the trivial matters between friends, because those ups and downs and trivial matters are the colorful little shells on the seaside of life. You should try to overcome the obstacles on the road of our friendship and open up a future path. If you hadn't moved us away Don’t worry too much about the stumbling blocks on the road of friendship. Get rid of that stumbling block. Live a life free and easy. Because there is no perfect road for everyone. There is no big road or small road. There is no sun or moon. There must be a road before the car reaches the mountain. , the ship will naturally stop at the bridge.

The wealth in life is endless, but what is the real wealth? Is it money? Is it power? No, it is friendship. I don’t know which philosopher said: "Wealth is not True friends, friends are eternal wealth." Friends, when you know the value of friends, don't pay too much attention to the trivial matters between friends. You should know: friendship does not last for a while, but in peacetime; it does not depend on age, but on Soul, friends, don’t take it too seriously, let us look at the beautiful sunrise hand in hand and fight together!