? Behind the wonderful life we pursue, there are inevitably some eyes like thorns, and we must live wisely. Everything in life is like the tidbits of wild trees floating by the river, which cannot be played clearly with our light hands.
? Life is bound to encounter some miscellaneous things, which are hard stones on everyone's life path. These scattered stones are testing your coping thinking. If you are too stupid and honest, you will be slaughtered by others without knowing it, and you will be used as invisible cannon fodder for others.
? After years of washing, after years of constant struggle, hard work to change my life. When city people despise village girls, they secretly make up their minds to stand in the city, stand in places that others think impossible, and move empty households to cities that others think impossible, breathing the air in the city.
She, the tiny village girl, did it one by one. She struggled to get closer step by step by her own strength. Starting from scratch alone, taking root in a favorite city and a favorite place, and moving the vacant household registration to that place, I have done something that others think is impossible. However, she simply doesn't know that this is like a special bet in life. At that time, the elevator community in the city was starting to take off, and it was a kind of contentment to go from the escalator to the elevator. But I didn't know that it was really a pain to live next to people with low quality in the city community, and the villagers in the back would be more serious with some city people who looked like "leeches" all the way. This is a very tiring thing and a long thing.
? From some tedious things in this city, I know that the society used to be so unfair. Everywhere in the city, there are different qualities and different moral qualities. In fact, the cultivated quality and cultural level are different. (A person's moral character and self-cultivation can be divided into rural areas and urban areas. It is not that rural people are lowly, nor that urban people are all highly cultivated. Whether everything is a good education is related to the family. ) You can't be perfect in the city you once yearned for, no matter where you live, you need wisdom.
? The little village girl grew up in the countryside and lived in a thatched cottage with air leakage since childhood; Lived in a small nest without brick walls; Lived in a simple hut where one foot could fall through a rotten wooden door; Growing up drinking water from a muddy ditch. There is no snobbery in the city in that rural area, and there is no explicit comparison between urban people in that rural small courtyard.
? There are some people in the urban community who like to secretly collect the family information and background of each household, such as the unit and power level. They pretend to be familiar with you, but they are actually doing some wicked things. They are like leeches in the dark, and they think they are the "institutional spy center of the rulers" in the community. That day, I was prepared to be bitten by this "community leech" quietly. You are still drunk, and you don't know that she is complacent there.
Why did the older generation always emphasize that no matter where you are, you must keep a low profile and never show off? In order to protect the safety of your family and lead a quiet little life for your family, you must guard against "disaster comes from your mouth". It is not necessarily a good person who smiles from head to toe in front of you. The "smiling tiger" in the world bites you hard, and you will not understand what caused it.
? To be an ordinary person, there is no strong power and influence behind you. You must learn to take up legal weapons and wisdom to fight, and you must learn to protect yourself. Because you are nothing before the law without evidence, you will either become cannon fodder for others to do bad things and be used. When you mistake the person who did you for a "benefactor", you have become the cornerstone of others' mat, and even become the object of others' bite.
? There are no traps everywhere in life, and the complexity of city people is divided into several factions. Sometimes it's just that you are confused and don't find it, and sometimes it's just that you are in a hurry and don't dwell on it. The "smiling tiger" is really terrible. The terrible thing is the people who use you, the terrible thing is the people who betray you, and the people who frame you. Finally, you are stupid as a neighbor and friend.
? The road of life is full of thorns. In different seasons, they have charming and colorful stamens. The charming fragrance sometimes makes us lose our defense, makes the fox get into the circle of life, and makes the wolf sneak into our defensive fence. No matter at that pass, we should grasp the discretion of making friends and mark the degree of making friends.
? Doudou Yangyang
? July 5, 222