The change in the concept of marriage is, on the one hand, caused by the catalysis of the progress of the times. The rapid economic development has led to the low income of some people with low ability, and the actual consumption is far from being able to support the life they yearn for. This leads them to pay more attention to material things when choosing marriage. The purpose is to shorten the gap between the rich and the rich so that they can live a better life.

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The other reason is comparison and following the trend. Some people envy the high living standards of others, but their own abilities are insufficient. In order to make themselves shine, they will put their subjective consciousness on choosing marriage. This opportunistic approach has invisibly formed an abnormal trend, causing some people to follow the trend and fueling its popularity.

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In addition, there are some people who are particularly overestimated and vain. They are incompetent and ask others to be gods. They are frogs in the well but covet those who fly high in the sky. swan. The spread of this kind of narrow-minded and narrow-minded ideas also led some people to blindly follow the trend, which led to the final breakup of lovers. Exaggerated world, exaggerated people, exaggerated love, exaggerated marriage, this is the pale reality, powerless.

Today’s love is very vain, and marriage is not real. They are all about money. Many people do many things that are incomprehensible. One is that the other party bought a house before marriage, and the other party insists on adding money. My name seems to be that the relationship I am talking about cannot guarantee the stability of my marriage. Only by seizing money can I be stable. It seems that it is not just for living, but I always think about what I can get after divorce.

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What is also incomprehensible is that when we are getting married and having a banquet, we want to treat but don’t want to pay for it. The man spent all the money for the woman’s dinner together, and eventually they broke up on bad terms, and the marriage was not consummated, so they got divorced. It turns out that love is so fragile!

In fact, the basis of whether a person’s understanding of marriage is distorted lies in the severity of a person’s selfishness, which depends on a person’s character, understanding of marriage values, and attitude towards marriage. In real life, remarks that distort the view of marriage are rampant, but not everyone’s practices distort the essence of marriage. They are usually the wise men in life, and only stupid people will be convinced and imitate the so-called behavior, understanding and speech of distorting the view of marriage.

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