Zheng Huan in the play noticed that there was something wrong with her mother, and was reminded by her friends, so she gave the right medicine with insight. He knows how to read and listen, act according to circumstances, and make his mother happy again. I can't help thinking, if Zheng Huan directly asks, "Mom, why do you look unhappy?" Will there be such a warm scene? I think all my mother can say is "nothing, nothing". Therefore, vision is an emotional lubricant in daily life, not a tough way to open scars, but a gentle way to solve problems, which is often more effective.

However, in real life, many people have no strength. They can't analyze whether their words and deeds are appropriate according to each other's words and deeds, joys and sorrows, and often do something inappropriate. Such people are often unavoidable. Don't make friends with people who have no strength. My cousin told me about a post-90s girl in her company, and said that she didn't know how to treat her. When she got off work, her cousin took out a chicken roll that had been bitten twice for lunch, and the girl loudly said that I would eat it, too.

Cousin said it was left over at noon, and she immediately said, "I'll eat the other side." Cousin took it out of the microwave oven and smiled before she got to her seat. Then she took out a pair of chopsticks and said, "Let's split it in half." Cousin wanted to show that she didn't eat at noon, but in view of her embarrassment, she politely asked her if she had anything to eat. She "cut" the chicken roll intently and said with a smile: "No ... Then, the girl quickly divided the chicken roll and took most of it without waiting for her cousin to speak, leaving only a small part.

On the other hand, other colleagues saw this scene and deliberately said loudly, "Did she eat more than half and take the chicken away, leaving you a cucumber, a little sauce and a little chicken powder?" My cousin looked at him in distress situation, and the girl heard him, but she still smiled at my cousin while eating, which made her feel speechless. There is a question on Zhihu: What's it like to be with someone who has no strength? Friends have said that they want to hack each other to death in minutes, but they don't want to have any contact with each other.

There are often one or two people around us who have neither eyesight nor self-knowledge. If you don't clearly point out your dissatisfaction, the other party won't feel anything wrong at all. What's more, I can't see my face clearly and can't understand the hint. Under such circumstances, I often don't know what to do and how to protect myself without hurting each other's relationship. What would you do if you met such a person?