This depends on your purpose for chatting. In real life, there are indeed many people who can express true feelings on the Internet, but they must be screened out.
It’s strange that there are more and more leftover men and women in modern society! I originally thought that with the rapid development of society and economy, people are getting closer and closer, so there will be more opportunities for young men and women to interact with each other. Then, it should be easy to find the one you like. However, contrary to expectations, boys and girls seem to be looking for a partner. It’s getting harder and harder! Why is this? When everyone was asked why they didn't have a partner yet, they all argued that the life circle was too small, there were few knowledgeable people, and they didn't have a partner they liked. Therefore, life-long events were postponed again and again, and finally they got to the point where they were older adults. ! Let’s carefully analyze the current situation: There are only a few common channels for finding partners in current society: the opposite sex you come into contact with through study, life, and work will naturally develop into lovers. blind date. Make arrangements with your family, relatives or friends to meet the opposite sex. Online friendships then develop into partnerships.
Online dating can actually be subdivided into many types, such as those who meet through various chat tools such as QQ and WeChat, and those who meet through dating websites such as Youyuan.com. Let’s talk about the first type first. This type is undoubtedly the most common. I believe that anyone with certain social skills and ability to communicate with the opposite sex will get a partner through this method. Speaking of the second type, currently there are not a few people who have gone through blind dates. Most of them are because they are busy working on their careers and can’t think of finding a partner, but their parents and relatives are in a hurry, so they arrange introductions for them. Finally, let’s talk about the third type. Obviously, those who met on dating websites are more reliable than those who met on chat tools, because the starting point is different. The biggest function of chat tools is instant chat between strangers. First, a large part of it must be eliminated. People just come here just to chat, because many people already have partners or even children. The dating website is different. The vast majority of people who use the dating website are single men and women. They all come with the same purpose, and it must be the first or second way that they are unwilling or unable to use, so they choose the dating website. With this same purpose, it is obvious that the success rate of pairing will be greatly improved. However, this kind of risk is also very high. Many scumbags transform into successful people, hiding among the thousands of single young men on the website, ready to attack at any time, find prey, and eat them easily. As adults, we know that no matter which channel, getting to know each other is a long-term process, and it is not possible to complete the true face of a person in a day or two.
The Internet provides us with many opportunities to make friends, especially for people in a narrow life circle, making friends online is a good choice. However, the Internet is virtual after all, and there are many traps on the Internet. To successfully make friends online, you need some experience. If you have experience, you will think that online dating is reliable. If you have no experience, you may think it is unreliable. Therefore, we must keep our eyes open, discard the false while retaining the true, and find real people and real objects. This is our ultimate goal. Some people are afraid of being deceived and regard the Internet as a scourge. They do not believe in the Internet and do not contact the Internet. From then on, One extreme leads to another.
Today's Internet is a fast-food era. If you have similar personalities, you will chat a few more words, and if you don't agree, delete them. Therefore, some people are not willing to make friends casually, and they are also afraid of new people they come into contact with. The Internet is a mixed bag, so some people will be defensive and unwilling to open up to others. Online dating is not a particularly reliable thing, because it is invisible and intangible, and it is not what it appears in real life. You can only understand a person through his self-introduction or updates, and what you see is too one-sided. Therefore, treat online dating with a normal mind and don’t be too persistent. Making friends in any way is risky!